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Comment by Maureen on February 27, 2015 at 11:53am

Sandy, what she told me is that sometimes we look too hard for these big signs that we miss the little signs that they show us all the time. If you're going to do it, make sure you check out the medium you choose. There are a lot of people out there who try to make money off of people who are vulnerable...like us. The reason I chose her is because of a dream I had of my son.

Comment by Sandy Hendrix on February 27, 2015 at 11:42am

I like that too Teresa, sure is true. 

Today is 4 months for me and it's been a really hard week, I am so down and so sad and I miss my Randy more then words can express.

Maureen, that is very interesting and I'm so glad it went well for you.  Maybe I should try that, I don't have any signs and I need them so much.

Hugs to everybody.. x0

Comment by Maureen on February 27, 2015 at 11:24am

I like that Teresa. I know there's probably some of you out there that might think I'm crazy but I saw a medium yesterday. It went really well. She brought up things about what's been going on in mine and my daughters lives lately that she possibly couldn't know. All the things that have happened since my son passed that are like signs that he's still with me were validated. Some personal things that my son wanted us to know really helped and I feel like the healing can begin now.

Comment by Teresa D. on February 27, 2015 at 7:32am

Comment by Marie on February 25, 2015 at 1:30pm

Thank you, Connie for the ideas. I like the ballon idea. I think we may do that.

Sharon, I am sorry for your loss. It is just so hard. My son was a month away from turning 23 when he died. He had just returned to college that week and died from an accidental heroin overdose. I am still stunned.

Comment by Sharon on February 24, 2015 at 10:46pm

Marie... I know how you feel. I can't believe my son is gone too. I miss him sooooo much. It's hard to go on...

Comment by Connie K on February 24, 2015 at 4:46pm

I know Sharon the idea of no relief EVER is daunting...

Marie _ i understand that DAY. For me it's every Saturday night. He died at 8:20pm. I don;t ever want to do anything.

I have done different things to honor my son on special days. I have done a balloon release with 5 of his closest friends. we all wrote a message and attached it to the balloons and sent them up together. It was nice for them to be together again and express their feelings. The first birthday he was gone my husband got a tattoo that matched one Daniel had. Last year we did a African drum circle with friends and family and that was awesome. He was a drummer. It is just good to plan Something even if talking a walk in a beautiful place or doing something that your child loved to do. I loved the drum circle because I didn't have to lead anything or host, just participate. Everyone could feel that my Daniel was there with us and everyone enjoyed such a positive and fun activity. I think I want to do it again this year.

Comment by Sharon on February 24, 2015 at 3:52pm

Having such a bad day. One minute I feel horrible anxiety, and the next I'm exhausted and sleep. I don't know much longer I can take feeling like this.

Comment by Marie on February 24, 2015 at 2:53pm

It has been a while since I have been on. Birthday blessings to Brandon and Greta. Next Friday, 2/6 will be the six month of losing my son. I feel like I want to do something special in his honor, but I don't know what. Do any of you have any ideas? How do you get through those dates? Every sixth of the month about kills me, I don't know how I will get through the six month date. It is still so unbelievable to me that he is gone!!

 

Comment by Sandy Hendrix on February 24, 2015 at 1:37pm

Dolly, love the Maxine cartoon and purple is my favorite color too.  The days are very hard, thanks everybody for being here and being supportive.  Very lost and sad without my Randy.

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