Hey. I would say That I know how you feel but ITs not true people have different ways to cop Soi will not say that but  I will say that I have been in that stage of the grief road and to tell you it's going toe hard and you need people who love you and no. To be telling you to hurry up thru that proces but obviously they don't know 
What your going thru so unless they know and less and still if they do they don't deserve for you to have them.hee not supporting you
So you move on your own phase neo matter what the say. But if you put these feelings ase they will come and haunt you later on the future. Also if you what totalk and someone to listen I'll be here any ime am a great listener so I'll be noproblem. Take care
Erika 

Hi C

I am so sorry for your compound loss. I know exactly what you are saying my friend. I lost my husband Oct. 26 2009 I came home from work & found him. If that weren't enought I lost my job 2 months later after 17 yrs. Everyone even family has seemed to have moved on like nothing happened. I hear from his family that maybe I need to talk to someone because I have been depressed for a long time. My God it is only 8 months, what am I supposed to do. I'm sorry but I cannot be over this & move on this quick the way others seemed to have done including my daughter. I really can't talk to her, when I tell her I had a bad couple of days she says Oh what do you mean in a sarcastic tone. You can't let this rule you Mom, I miss him too. Every Saturday like clockwork it starts, the crying etc. This week it has been pretty bad for me. I don't know what these people expect from me. I am so sorry, I'd like to be your friend even though we may never meet. We are all here for each other. All we can do is just take it day by day. The shame of this is this did not have to happen. My husband was so stubborn he just didn't take care of himself. You are in my thoughts

Hugs,
Anita Kelly