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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter 467 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Julie McKinney Jan 17, 2022.

STUPID things people say... " Vent Here " 182 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Robert Matthews Mar 11, 2018.

Do you ever feel like your pain from the sadness of losing your child, only intensifies as times goes by? 163 Replies

Started by Karen R.. Last reply by Jacqueline Miller-Gartner Mar 17, 2022.

Lost Faith 58 Replies

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The HOW ARE YOU dreaded Question ???? How do you answer??? 49 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Robert Matthews Mar 11, 2018.

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Comment by Michelle H on October 20, 2014 at 9:36am

Was on vacation last week, so unable to get or receive communications. Thinking of each and every one of you with compassion and prayers for some peace from the unbelievable grief. I marvel at everyone's strength and ability to be supportive of one another. This is a group of amazing people and I am humbled to be a part of you.

Comment by Dolly on October 20, 2014 at 8:48am

I know Teresa.. but I wondered if maybe she was dreading a loss of her own that might be imminent.. I think she has a grandchild with health issues... but not sure.. but I didn't ask her because I just had no comfort I could offer if that was the case... I feel like I took Brandon too much for granted.. didn't treasure him enough... wasn't careful enough.. didn't guard against the enemy enough.. was stupid and selfish and now I lost him... but I pray one day I'll be forgiven and can be with him again...

Comment by Teresa D. on October 20, 2014 at 6:06am

Lynn that was Kyra calling you.

Dolly that was a stupid question to ask anyone about any loss.  Some people are just plain ignorant.

Comment by Dolly on October 19, 2014 at 11:26am

LR when the dancing tree dances I wonder if there are not angels swirling around it making it dip and wave and twist and twirl.. and I wonder if Brandon is not with them.. and my granddaughters Isabella and Lulu who both left the world TOO soon... and all my other loved ones who are in heaven... what a sight that would be.. wish I had eyes to see it....

Comment by Vasanthi S on October 19, 2014 at 11:22am

I am so sorry for not having reached out more often. Dolly, that comment or question would have really puzzled me. I mean really!!!! 

Brice and Brianna's mom... I really don't have words just can feel with you. I lost my only son who was 27 and the light and love of my life and I can well understand you all so so well, just wish the reality of having our children with us had continued. Love to all from Mumbai. 

Comment by Lynn Williams on October 19, 2014 at 10:28am

Adrianna I understand what you mean about running from reality. I have been having some hard days,but also some beautiful ones. My other daughter Genna who is 24 just moved back home with us in Vermont from Montana with her dog Ruby. My husband refurbished a one room cabin with a kitchen on the property for her to live in. Next spring she will begin farming it. I am so happy she is home, but it points out one of us is physically missing. I still cry most nights when I talk to Kyra,and pray for all our children who are still with us in spirit, but the loss is great. I am having great difficulty falling asleep again does anyone have any homeopathic remedies I might try. Today I am taking part in a Crop walk to end world Hunger, maybe thinking of others will lift me a little today. I have gotten three phone calls on my home phone the past 2 weeks which caller Id says is me calling, and gives my home number. When I answer no one is there. I am hoping its another sign of Kyra telling me she is okay. Peace to everyone here; we all must carry on even on the impossible days. Love Lynn williams

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on October 18, 2014 at 12:58am
Haven't been on for awhile because I'm too busy running from my reality. Working so many hours. A few more diagnosis regarding my health. I'm afraid if I stop I will have a break down. I don't know how to manage this emotional pain. I think of all of you. My heart grieves for us all. Two days ago a high school senior in our small mountain town was hit by a truck hauling a trailer. She was on her way home from band practice. Her mom was just a little ahead of her. It took 30 minutes to get her out of her vehicle. She died. I want to know why. Why did all our children die? Why us god? Why us?
Comment by Jesse's Mom on October 17, 2014 at 8:18pm

Dolly, I saw the post on the sparkling tree a day after my own experience that was so similar. I was doing dishes and looked out the window at a tree at the edge of our yard...it literally sparkled with golden lights...I could not help but think if trees in heaven are a little like that...

Brice and Brianna's mom, I am so sorry for this tragic, horrible lose...I have had two but not so close together...Hugs...

Comment by Jane P on October 17, 2014 at 2:12pm

Dolly

You walk away.

That question was insensitive and without compassion.

Comment by Linda on October 15, 2014 at 3:31pm

ask them to think of their worst nightmare and magnify that by infinity fold. no one can ever imagine the magnitude until they walk a mile in our shoes. a shoe we pray they will never fit in.

much love to you Dolly.

 

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