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Comment by dream moon JO B on February 21, 2015 at 3:56pm

im so sorrry barbara 2012 wz a yr frm hell for me dad died loss non stop thn 2013 2014 

evry on hear is bean gr 2 me 2 evry 1 e;se thy hav it least on hear no 1 can sea us cry or tell us way shud feal so sory for yore losss  

Comment by Barbara C on February 21, 2015 at 11:06am

Hi. I'm new to the group. I just found the site yesterday. My fiancé' passed away on 1/19/15. My brother in law who I helped take care of died 2 weeks later on 2/1/15. My mom died 11/25/14....... I have been trying to find support but support groups are limited in my area. Hoping to find some online support. I am barely holding my head above water right now.

Comment by Angela Y on December 14, 2014 at 4:19pm

A loss can bring you to your knees but multiple losses not only do that but take your breath away. I know this personally. One thing I've learned is that we must continue living. It is hard as hell. I almost gave up myself but by the grace of God I'm here. Each day is a second chance to live your life. To honor your loved ones. To own your direction and choices. My heart goes out to all who feel the ache that no medicine or therapy can completely take away. We are a unique club none of us chose to join but here we are. So what will you do to change the course of your grief? I hope you all learn to make peace with what we can't control and find blessings in living.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 14, 2014 at 3:04pm

yea i do 2 nicholl iv lots 2 mush lst 2/3 yrs or so only prob if me is if thy did cm bk i wud not let go

if my dad wz still hear me mum wud be so happy no 1 wud hav a go at us or buly us 2 get over it or els 

i wish myanti d wz still hear she died in july yhs yr anti b lst yr in 2013 a lot of othrs past 2 it wud tk me for evr if i i saed persons its gon it wud

i wish multi loss did not sond lk a bad hit list dnt no if it snds silly or not me sayin it

Comment by Nicholle on December 14, 2014 at 1:57pm

These holiday! Sheesh! If the Missing could just come for one person at a time, but no, with 3 losses so close together, one just leads to another to another and suddenly the wave of missing is a giant that takes me under! I have no tolerance, I can't do the normal small talk required at all these holiday functions with people I don't really know or care about. I need to conserve my energy. How is this NORAML? I feel like I just found out Santa isnt real- is it going to feel like this FOREVER? Does it get better? It's all still new, but it sure feels like I have felt this way for a very long time now. My precious mil passed 3 years ago...6 months after she passed my own momma was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, and that was a hell ride for 22 months until she passed one year ago. 2 months before she passed we found out that my father in law was terminal, and he passed 6 months after my mom. And when there are no more parents to take care of stuff guess who has to do it? The kids! We did. We are supposed to lose our parents first. This is the right order. I just feel that our 30's are too young to be doing it. It's our first Christmas without my father in law. It can't feel this raw forever, can it? Sending love to everyone, everywhere. This crap is HARD! 

Comment by Kim Cady on December 14, 2014 at 11:27am

@Theresa - I understand what you've said... I've lost my father & husband, but, also friends and my four-legged companions. It is so hard. I have been trying to put my life back together... through help.. I had to get... this group is good. No one but those who have faced loss on this level can understand completely how devestating it is. I understand when someone says - it's so hard to befriend anyone... for fear they too will disappear. Now, this is happening to me.. again, but, I am going to do my best not to walk away from a friend who just got diagnosed with cancer. She's very frightened. But, all I wanted to do is stop talking to her. How HORRIBLE TO BE! But, I won't. I hope she makes it & by faith... and love I am going to do my best. Love you all... love and faith - therapy you can afford, sometimes medicine.. to get you through.. I wanted to end my pain so many times & have no family & believe me those who that remain have no real understanding and I always feel strained. Kindness is what we need... kindness.

Comment by shiry on December 14, 2014 at 11:00am

i'm 26 y i don't know what to say i lost my father and mother both to cancer and after 2 years of losing my mom i lost my sister 6 years ago every day is harder i want to stop just stop my life my sis was so close to me she was like mom for me no one around me now can understand how mush i feel lonely i started to lie to my friends couse i don't want to see or talk to any one i'm pushing everyone away and i can;t open my heart or my life even for those who has been close to me any more i didn't finish my studies and i didn't have a job its like i don't even have a life every day is the same only tv and movies i feel like i'm living into the tv it's hard and only gets harder i want and love to start my life again but can't find the power  or the motive to do so.

Comment by Kim Cady on December 10, 2014 at 12:34pm

Thank you for setting this Group up. The Holidays are very hard for us. I am alone now for 4 years & sometimes can barely make it through. 

Comment by dream moon JO B on October 10, 2014 at 4:41pm

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on September 30, 2014 at 10:46pm

Theresa, I am praying for you. You have truly endured a huge amount of loss in a short period of time. God is able. I have had to let go and let god. Prayer changes things. I still have grief at times. But I am better than I was after loosing both parents within a year.

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