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My mother, Ann, died of cancer on March 18th 2011. It hasn't been any easier to live my days without her. I feel like I am just marking the days until I can join her.
It is tough Casey and Chris so just hang in there day to day..
My mother passed away about 7 months ago coming this Tuesday. It feels like just yesterday when she passed way in some ways.The stabbing pain is just as deep when I think about my sweet 56 year old young mother and how she cannot continue her life while I can keep on living.I do not want to cry all day but I cry everyday. Our husband, wive or boy/girlf friend will never understand our sense of fear and sadness and loss. Nothing can fill up the overwhelming snse of loss we experience. All we can do is try to breath each breath one at a time.
MY mom passed away about a year and a half ago I had a break down last Thursday I woke up and just could not quit crying. I think I tried to fool myself and for a long time saying that I was ok even when I wasn't. I realized it ok to be sad sometimes and cry you cant keep it in and don't always have to be strong
I lost my Mother on March 10, 2013. In my arms. It has changed me dramatically. I really have no idea how to take a step forward.
I lost my mother on June 25th 2014, We removed her life support, And I held her hand, as she struggled to breathe, She opened her eyes for the first time in a week, and tried to talk, we could see the letter n form, she said it a few times, and we watched as her life slipped away, I have a horrible quilt inside me, that I can't get through. I break down everyday, I can't imagine it ever getting easier. I feel so empty. I took a clipping of her hair, and I have that part of her with me, with so many memories of dinners and get together s , And yes we had many arguments through the years , The one thing I wish we had, was we were not a hugging family, I wished I could hold and hug her so hard, and I hope she knows I loved her so much. with out differences, Today I wished I could just lay down and sleep forever, Antidepressants do not take the pain, and the sadness from my heart. I have no energy to do anything. I just think, and hope there is an after life! Because I have no faith that there is. And my mother is just laying in the darkness of the vault that is closed around her body. Will I ever see her again, besides in my dreams and in pictures
Ron, you have gone through an incredible amount of loss in your life. After my dad and mom passed I went briefly to a grief counselor. Just talking about it helped me. So, I think it's a great idea for you to seek professional help. Sometimes the pain can be hard to bear. We are all hear to talk with you and help you through. Because we know all to well about loss. I am praying for you to find the help you need. You have taken care of everyone, now it's time for you to grieve and eventually begin the healing process. You will get through this. I don't think we ever get over losing our mom's. They are with us in our hearts forever. But I know you will get through it...
I think I need to get myself some professional help with my grief..I have had clinical depression for years as it is, but I have always had a purpose...I helped my mom take care of my dad until he passed away in 1995. then my girlfriend and I helped take care of my grand father until he passed in 2002..Then I moved in with grandma to take care of her and my girlfriend would come over to watch her while I was at work until grandma passed in 2006..Then I took care of my girlfriend who had numerous health issues until she passed away in 2008 after 11 years together, then I had 3 cousins and one cousins husband pass away in between, and then I spent the last 12 years taking care of mom up until her death 2 weeks ago. Now I woke up today totally depressed thinking what is my purpose now? I'm about out of relatives, and I went for a drive thinking about driving my van into a wall at 90mph..I have had thoughts of hurting myself for some time, but now its going to intensify..I'm pretty much a loner, have no personal friends, basically I go through the motions of going to work, and coming home and sleep..I think its about time I get some professional help, or i'll burn out and die early myself.
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