Suzy I don’t know if you’re still out there. If so, I hope you are okay. I read your comment and joined specifically because of it. My soul mate passed this week; I am gutted. Everyone’s story is their own, but he was my light, my happiness, I was the best version of myself when we were together. We both wanted a shot at forever, and we were getting there. I can’t articulate the heartache. Your words at least help me feel less alone, less crazy. I hope this group is still going I think it is the only comfort I can hope for. Thank you.
Suzy I would definitely love to keep the group alive and reach out. I wasn't sure if I was supposed to comment under your comment on my wall or come here still learning. I think this is the lonliest place in the world. I look at his wife's Facebook and see all the condolences offered for her and his mother and siblings. I see how they all lean on each other while I have to hide in the bathroom and cry alone. I see stuff his siblings post that I think that's exactly how I feel and how I would love to cry with someone that loved him too.
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An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
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