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Comment by gramaokie on August 5, 2014 at 9:17pm

Charles:  I'm so sorry for your losses.  It's my guess that if your wife and mother could talk to you, they wouldn't want you to beat yourself up over their deaths.  No matter how much we do for our loved ones on earth, it seems we always think we could have done more.  It's obvious to me that you loved each of them very much.  Since you know they're in heaven, you know it's a better place than this earth.  They are at peace.  The Bible says when we die is under God's control.  When my brother died suddenly 4 years ago, many people told me "he's in a better place".  My reply was "I know that, but I still miss him."  I hope my ramblings help in some small way.  Take good care!

Comment by charles daley on August 5, 2014 at 7:32pm

my wife died 4 years yesterday and my mom passed away 5 months yesterday i main issues i'm having right now is angry and guilt at myself for not doing enough to prolong their lives alot of people said to me it wasn't your fauilt even knowing that as their caregiver and a son and a husband i feel i let them down knowing they are in heaven helps me a little bit but i continue to blame myself for their deaths i feel i have nothing left i have no faith what so ever .whoever reads this could they five me some advise because the two people who i loved the most are gone

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 5, 2014 at 4:32pm

yyea i no h ow u feal diane a iv got a famly mber bday 2 moro 1 it has pst its only bean a few wks for ths 1 it has after my dad died iv had death non stp

Comment by Diane A on August 5, 2014 at 11:57am

Today is a hard day.  I don't understand why.  Although I know that family birthday celebrations are just around the corner and I don't know how I feel about going.  I want to but the relationships are so strained I can't stand it.  I know this is really about losing people to death but my heart feels as if I have.  God help me, please?

Comment by Dreama on August 2, 2014 at 11:40am

My dad died 9 years ago. After he did I started a group I call H.U.G.S. When he passed he told me to keep helping people so that's what I've been striving to do ever since. So, if I may here is the link to the blog. Lots of good information there I invite you to join and together we can help each other heal.

http://heartsunitedgatherstrength.blogspot.com/

Comment by Angela Y on July 30, 2014 at 12:03am

I am really struggling with my personal relationship with my fiancé after losing my brother and mom. I lost my brother a year ago in June and then my mom this March. Losing my brother brought me to my knees. Losing my mother took what little was left inside of me. I feel so cold inside and it's affecting my relationship with an amazing man. A man who has walked this painful journey with me. I just have nothing left to give anymore. I hoped it would get better but instead I'm finding it increasingly more difficult to show or feel any emotions other than anger and grief. I suffer silently now with the grief but you can't hide lack of emotion and engagement with those that love you. Has anyone experienced this? How do you find yourself again? Are we lost forever in an emotionless existence? One where I feel being alone is the only answer. How much can our loved ones take and is it cruel to take them down a path we aren't sure will ever change? Should I accept that this numbness is my new normal and release this kind man from suffering with me? I just don't know. I am so lost at this stage.

Comment by Diane A on June 19, 2014 at 11:28am

It's now been 8 months since my daughter spoke to me, except when she accidentally bumps into in town.  My heart is bleeding.  I not only lost her, but many many others because of this situation. 

Comment by debbie larson on May 27, 2014 at 7:40pm

someone suggested compassionate friends I am going to call and set up an appointment with them they get together 3rd tuesday of each month. I will have to wait until June but hopefully this will get me in the right direction.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 28, 2014 at 5:43pm

i thng my comp is plyn up coz of rthm dots on thr

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 28, 2014 at 5:43pm

• im so sorry fr yore losses lori my dad died in 2012 wish lft my mum has had depresion she has iv got ptsd u cud say
• i dnt thng we cud lose so manny on top thes lst 2 or 3 yrs hav ot bean grt 2 us
• so soory fr yore losses

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