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"staring down" (typo!)
As the calendar turns to May, I'll be staring the most dreadful month personally....birthdays of my Mom and Dad...both gone now, plus Mother's Day. And, my Dad and grandfather and my aunt/godmother also passed in May. Can we just skip to June? Trying to think good thoughts, but it's tough.
Missy, it will be two years in September for me too. Your daughter want you to be better like my daughter want me to be better. I am who I am. My son was with a girl and her brother. They told police that my son was playing with the gun and shot himself in the head. I know they shot my only son Missy, I know they had something to do with my son death. I just can not prove it.
Sometimes relocation makes all the difference. After my mom was killed in 2012, dad and I decided to leave where we were since we had no close family there. Now, living in a new place where we have family and where mom always wanted to live, things have been eased somewhat. And with her reinterred here, we're finally all together in the place that mom always wanted to be. I think that this has brought us as much peace as can be expected at this point.
I am experiencing many emotions. I feel alot of panic whenever i think about the fact that my mother is gone. I have aunties from another country, but I feel like I am absolutely alone no matter who I am with because my mom is not here anymore. I feel so much despair and sadness I wish I can just died from my broken heart...*cries*
Everything in this world is so strange and foreign to me...my mother was my sanctuary...i was depressed before but now I am absolutely in a dark vortex
Thanks Melissa
Casey... I'm sorry to hear about your mom. The first weeks after my mom passed away were horrific for me .I also thought about not wanting to live anymore, I think it's a normal thought brought by all the pain one is feeling.
You have to try to take it very slowly, one day at a time or one hour at a time, and be patient and caring with yourself.
i have no kids no family. My mom was 56 and she died of lung cancer,. Its been 8 weeks since she passed away. I actually constantly want to die but i know that my mom wouldn't want it. That ist he only reason I am not dead because she wouldnt want me to. I will never recover from this nor should I be really. My mom was and is my everything.
I agree with Wendy. I am sure I will never be the same, but am learning to handle the day by day stuff, it is just the holidays and special dates when the family would always celebrate that hits me. For example, my family had a celebration dinner for the birthdays of the month. My son's 21st is tomorrow and I am changing it from eating at the house to going out to eat so it is not so demanding on all of us to have to try to carry on the tradition.
Lisa Renee, it has been close to 8 months since I lost my mom and best friend. Frankly, I don't think I will ever feel quite the same again. I think we learn to deal with the pain, but I think we are forever changed. I am sure that is the case for myself. I do think one day we will be better, but just not quite the same if that makes sense.
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