Sorry it has taken me so long to write back. I have been having a bad time lately and this day especially. I just want my daughter back. I want this all to be a nightmare and I will wake up and she will be here at home. I can't take it today. This is the worse day ever. I can't even look at her picture without having an anxiety attack. I keep thinking that it will be okay tomorrow but it won't. She is never coming back and I don't know how to live with that. Day by day sucks. All of the clichés in the world don't work for me right now. I miss my Sara and just want to hold her a tell her everything will be okay.
Thank you Alice, for the gentle words. You remember, too, that we are all here for you as well. I don't know which is worse, knowing that your loved one is dying or dies suddenly. I think they are equally bad and that we all have our own crosses to bear. While Sara lingered it was torture. She was in pain and discomfort all of the time and watching that was unbearable. She is in heaven now and at peace as is your husband. I can't imagine the grief you are going through even though I am suffering too. I pray for you and everyone that is grieving.
To all those who are grieving a loss I will keep you in my prayers as you keep me in yours.Always remember to pay attention cause you never know when that love one will give you a sign that they are there.I was playing golf one day and this cardinal kept following me around the course and I know in my heart that my husband was there.
No comments yet!
Welcome to Online Grief Support - A Social Community
An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
This group is for anyone that has lost a brother or sister. Sibling loss is often minimized and people don't realize how devastating losing a sibling can be. I lost my older sister and my life will never be the same. She was my only sibling, I looked up to her, I went to her for everything. I lost my past, present and future. It is traumatic.See More
Provided to YouTube by The Orchard EnterprisesSun Keeps Risin' · Lissie · Elisabeth Corrin Maurus · Martin CraftMy Wild West℗ 2015 Lionboy RecordsReleased on...
Late February is a challenging time of year for me. Jen’s birthday is the 23rd and serves as an annual reminder of all of the potential that was lost…Her’s (mainly), mine, the world’s honestly. This year she would be 52…It is increasingly hard to imagine, through all of the iterations possible, what she could have become, what was to be her (significant) impact on the world.That being said, things, emotions, have largely settled down since I committed a potential version of what could have…See More
This group focuses on healing ourselves and each other over the death of a child and welcomes a Christian atmosphere to help with the healing process. I welcome all of those grieving.See More
Alice's Comments
Comment Wall (7 comments)
You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!
Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Thank you Alice. I know she is with God. I think God is with all of us too. I hope that I get to see her when it is my time.
I pray everyday and ask God to keep her happy. I also ask for help dealing with it. It feels like my guts are being wrenched out of me.
Sorry it has taken me so long to write back. I have been having a bad time lately and this day especially. I just want my daughter back. I want this all to be a nightmare and I will wake up and she will be here at home. I can't take it today. This is the worse day ever. I can't even look at her picture without having an anxiety attack. I keep thinking that it will be okay tomorrow but it won't. She is never coming back and I don't know how to live with that. Day by day sucks. All of the clichés in the world don't work for me right now. I miss my Sara and just want to hold her a tell her everything will be okay.
did you ever reach K? I talked to her on the phone the other night. Poor kid is pretty much alone I guess. She seems very down.
Thank you Alice, for the gentle words. You remember, too, that we are all here for you as well. I don't know which is worse, knowing that your loved one is dying or dies suddenly. I think they are equally bad and that we all have our own crosses to bear. While Sara lingered it was torture. She was in pain and discomfort all of the time and watching that was unbearable. She is in heaven now and at peace as is your husband. I can't imagine the grief you are going through even though I am suffering too. I pray for you and everyone that is grieving.
Thank you Alice. I appreciate the prayers and, yes, you are in mine. You all are.
Welcome to
Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Sign Up
or Sign In
Or sign in with:
Groups
Sibling Loss
9 members
Loss of a child In memor…
29 members
Too Young To Die
17 members
Losing a Sister
93 members
Multiple Losses Group
324 members
I miss my Mom!
751 members
Grief Counseling
140 members
Zoom Grief Support
39 members
Orphaned Adults
80 members
Sole Survivors
15 members
Losing a sibling
62 members
Being the Other Woman/Ot…
43 members
Compounded grief with ex…
49 members
Lost both parents
12 members
You're too young to be a…
139 members
Latest Activity
Assumptions
Sibling Loss
Sun Keeps Risin'
Triggers Continue to Surface
Loss of a child In memory of my son or daughter