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Yesterday it was 12 weeks since my Mom passed. It seems like a lot of time and then it's just 3 months. I'm really lost without her. She was my home and my heart. She still is in a way, but I feel like I'm ages away from her.
Thanks Eliza. I think everyone assumes because Mom was older and had health issues that it should be less traumatic somehow, or at least more easily accepted. Given the circumstances, while I certainly understand her passing, it's still hard to accept (if that makes any sense). I wish she was still here, even for a little while longer. Her mind was sharp, even if her body was failing. Her abrupt passing was likely a kindness to her, but painful to me since I did not expect it. But, this happens all the time..."such is life" , Mom would say.
I miss my mom still, but its getting easier.....I saw a pic of her last night and it was actually sweet.....she was doing some crafts....I miss you mom...love you, im not wallowing in it
Thank you for posting that Eliza. This is something I need to print out and read from time to time.
Sundays are hard, those are the days that if I didn't go to see her we would talk on the phone. Yesterday morning I thought 'oh I get to talk to mom today'...then the grief hit.
Oh goodness Jeff R, I just saw where you just lost your mom in February and by all means you are just in the initial stages of grief. It is probably just now all starting to sink in. Suppressing it doesn't help you are anyone else around you. I had grief attacks like in Eliza's list and they were at their peak at the 8th month mark and I still cry from time to time at nite or when I miss her most. I also laugh sometimes-just last nite was coming out of the bathroom and lost my balance and ended up with my face right in my moms picture hanging on the wall. I laughed, kissed the picture, and said, once again mom-catching me when I fall! Take some time Jeff R and don't beat yourself up-grief is a process!
Thanks for that Eliza. I'm feeling lousy after this weekend and keep thinking, "is this normal"? But, I guess it is. Every time I think I'm over the loss, I quickly realize I am not. And suppressing it has been utterly pointless. It's really going to take some time, I am finally realizing.
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