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Numbness and Anger
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For the last three weeks I have been unable to feel anything but anger and numbness. I feel like I am slowly dying inside. Everything annoys me. I don't want to be around friends or family. I have…Continue

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Sharron Anderson replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"Thank you"
Oct 7
bluebird replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"Absolutely! Of course you can post in this thread (or in my thread, or in any other thread) at any time; also feel free to send me a message via this site if you want to. {{{{hugs}}}}"
Oct 6
Sharron Anderson replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"Thank you. I have to thank you because it helps to talk to someone who understands. I am glad I can contact you because right now you are my life line. Yesterday was horrible. When I think I am handling this, I loose it, I get really angry and then…"
Oct 6
bluebird replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"No therapist would view you as crazy for feeling as you do.  You might want to see one who specializes in grief, if neither of the two you already have set up do (if they don't work out for you).  Of course you're all over the…"
Oct 5
Sharron Anderson replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"I will be speaking to rwo next week. I just don't want to be view as crazy. Even thought I feel that way. I know I'm emotionally all over the place. Thank you for talking to me. Seems like it's hard to get help. Please don't…"
Oct 5
bluebird replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"All perfectly valid reactions in response to your fiancé's death, including the part about not feeling that you are you anymore (I feel that way, too). Hopefully participating on this website will help you a bit -- there are definitely…"
Oct 5
Sharron Anderson replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"Thank you bluebird, It helps to know that I am not crazy. Things annoy me to the point I have to stay away from people. I don't want to talk to people in person. I just want to be alone. I don't feel that I am me anymore. I am someone…"
Oct 5
bluebird replied to Sharron Anderson's discussion Numbness and Anger
"I am so sorry. I understand feeling angry and numb, as my husband's death has affected me in the same way. I also find that everything annoys me, and it's partly because of that that I often have a hard time being around friends or…"
Oct 5
Sharron Anderson left a comment for Lisa Maria DeMatto- Wysong
"Thank you Lisa for your kind words. I don't know how to vent right now, I feel like I am dead inside. I go thru the day doing things like I use to but with no feelings inside. You are right, I am traumatized with no way of processing being hit…"
Sep 17
Lisa Maria DeMatto- Wysong left a comment for Sharron Anderson
"Sharon,  I am truly sorry for what you have been going through. The way his family is treating you is inexcusable, they should know what you meant to him and what he means to you. The lack of being acknowledged as his fiance is also traumatic.…"
Sep 17
Sharron Anderson commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"My name is Sharron and I lost my fiancee and life long partner of 36 year in a tragic auto accident. I was with him 8/3/22 in the am and he was in a coma in the pm. He never came out of the coma. He was in a coma for 8 days and for 8 days I fought…"
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Numbness and Anger

For the last three weeks I have been unable to feel anything but anger and numbness. I feel like I am slowly dying inside. Everything annoys me. I don't want to be around friends or family. I have lost 10 pounds. I don't know how to end this. My finance was killed in an auto accident. He was in a coma and eight days later he died. I cried like someone ripped my heart out of my chest and now I am angry and numb.See More
Sep 9
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Fiancee' died from a horrific auto accident. He was in a coma for 9 days and then died. I stayed at the hospital with him. I have no rights to do anything because we were not married. I am angry and numb and lost.

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At 8:12pm on September 17, 2022, Lisa Maria DeMatto- Wysong said…

Sharon, 

I am truly sorry for what you have been going through. The way his family is treating you is inexcusable, they should know what you meant to him and what he means to you. The lack of being acknowledged as his fiance is also traumatic. I have no advice for you, just know that you aren't alone there are people that will support you. Reach out to friends and other family members. 

This site was very helpful for me, but it seems as if it isn't as busy as it once was. Maybe try one of the other groups.

I am here to listen if you want to vent.

My heart is aching for you.

Lisa

 
 
 

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