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Jayne left a comment for Mary
"Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne"
Aug 11
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been 2 years since I lost my mom and I sure hope the rut I am in is not my "new normal!"  I'm not anything like my old self.  I kind of miss that old me  but don't know how to get her back or if it is even…"
Mar 31, 2014
dream moon JO B left a comment for Mary
"so sorry 2 hear abot yore sister 2nd anversy still dont feal real thy dont so soorry abot yore sister ( a big hug fmr me)"
Mar 26, 2014
Danny left a comment for Mary
"It's real tough Mary, just hang in there."
Mar 26, 2014
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been so very long since I have been on here.  My mom passed away in March of 2012.  I just got through the second year anniversary but this year I had to get through it alone because I lost my only sister this past December and her…"
Mar 25, 2014
Mary joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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Mar 25, 2014
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am so sorry to hear of you loss Kristin.  Please don't blame yourself, as I know that no mom would want their child to feel they held any blame in their passing.  There are always going to be those "woulda, coulda,…"
May 30, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Cynthia, I truly believe our moms can hear us and talk to us.  My mom and I had agreed on a sign long before she passed away, after another near death experience she went through and I received the sign the day after she passed away.  I…"
May 29, 2013
Elissa left a comment for Mary
"Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her…"
May 29, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Elissa, I am so sorry for your loss.  Mine was similar.  My mom passed away March 2012.  I was having lunch with her and my sister on Monday and on Thursday she was diagnosed with brain cancer and did not know our names and was…"
May 28, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Maybe it is just the day..I've not really broken down and cried for a while now, but I did today.  I have my moms laptop and had to do an update and found a picture of her and I just broke down crying.  It's been about 14 months…"
May 15, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Maddy, I can't speak for you, but I don't think there would be anything wrong or that you would be selfish if you just had a quiet day with your husband on Mothers Day and I really don't think anyone else would be upset if you did not…"
May 10, 2013
Mary commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"A friend of a friend wrote this to her about grief she was going through and everyone kept acting like she should be "over" her grieving and I really liked it and decided to share here. "There is no prescribed time to grieve, only…"
May 10, 2013
Mary replied to Maddy's discussion Not sure how much more I can take.... in the group I miss my Mom!
"Oh never fear you did not make your husband sound horrible :) Anger is normal.  I personally took my anger out on God.  I felt guilty being angry with God but everyone reassured me it was normal and ok and that he understood. I used to…"
May 5, 2013
Mary replied to Marie N's discussion Feeling so sad in the group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Marie, my condolences to you.  I lost my mom a little over a year ago-March 22,2012. It is totally normal to feel extreme sadness. I did fall into a depressed state and it affected my health and my psychological well being-I became…"
May 5, 2013
Mary replied to Maddy's discussion Not sure how much more I can take.... in the group I miss my Mom!
"Maddy, I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my mom a little over a year ago.  Although I was not pregnant, she was everything to me and the grief I experienced unbearable at times.  It has only been 2 months and I honestly believe you…"
May 5, 2013

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About my Loss:
I lost my mom March 21, 2012. She died just 21 days after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. She was my best friend and losing her has been devastating.

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At 8:01pm on August 11, 2018, Jayne said…
Hi everyone I wasn't on here for a while I hope everyone's doing OK Jayne
At 5:42pm on March 26, 2014, dream moon JO B said…

so sorry 2 hear abot yore sister 2nd anversy still dont feal real thy dont so soorry abot yore sister

( a big hug fmr me)

At 1:32am on March 26, 2014, Danny said…

It's real tough Mary, just hang in there.

At 7:46pm on May 29, 2013, Elissa said…
Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her lungs and they found small lesions in her brain. This all happened in a three week period. She was fine one day and then died three weeks later. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. I feel as if this is a terrible dream that I will hopefully wake up from. Thanks again for your post!
At 8:04pm on January 1, 2013, Eliza said…
Thanks, Mary. Christmas was so hard. Today was hard, too. I miss her so much. Does this ever get easier?
At 2:40am on November 3, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

squeaky wheel ?? haha whats that about ?

At 3:12am on November 2, 2012, Joseph G. Bartlett said…

thank you for taking some time to write me to you im am truely sorry for the loss of your mom  i just hate that in order to get  some attention round here you half to rant /rave/  in genaral being a bigg pain in the butt  i'll remember about the time zones thank you joe

At 5:31pm on October 30, 2012, dream moon JO B said…

i no how u feal abot bdays my dads bday is boxing day we all used to go out for his bday som times for a meal 1 or 2 days later but we allways made a nite of it and hang overs the nxt day 

At 5:26pm on October 22, 2012, RUTH said…

Hi Mary aka Momma Bear...hope you doing ok and hope to catch up with you soon!

At 6:59pm on October 20, 2012, joni miller said…

Im sorry Mary :(  I know how you feel,   it just washed over you  sometimes,  and you are right you cant  control it,  all you can do when it happens is  put a positive thought in there  ,  and  let it pass,   it really hasnt been  that long for us,   and  I just think  its going to take a lifetime,  and  it will just get easier in time to bear it.  I wont use the word "get over"  or anything like that, because we have all  heard those things.   I  am  walking around the house  crying  and then  i am ok for an hour and then cry in the car,  etc.   I dont have the words other than to say,  I know how you are feeling.    There was  a sign posted in grief class that goes something like this :  The degree of grief you feel  when someone passes is directly proportional to the level of love you felt for them,  so in other words,  when  i knew my relationship with my mom  was so, close , on some level I always knew one day I would have my "enormous" loss,  and I do.   I think you feel the same.      Sent me a note and let me know how you are doing when you get a chance.   Ruth is out of town but will be back on Sunday. 

 
 
 

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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"True Brett Should I be thankful? My mom died in an instant she was herself until the last minute. Some say I’m lucky I didn’t have to watch her suffer. But my mom used to always say we suffer everyday in this earth. I would have been…"
8 minutes ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"No, she didn't everyone, good or bad, dies. Few people have an easy death."
50 minutes ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Wow Avi I believe in karma but I’m not sure that your mom has done anything wrong present or past that would make her have gotten that disease"
2 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thanks Theressa. Yes hope the questions will be answered. In my country, lot of importance is given to Karma and it is believed that whatever you sow and you will reap the same. Not sure how this karma cycle is analyzed and who decided if this was a…"
3 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Yes Avi That’s what we all have to do we have to go on with our lives it’s so much easier said than done I cry sometimes uncontrollably I have hope that one day every question or any uncertainty we have will be answered"
3 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Guys it is completely 1 year when my mother's cancer was detected. I hope I can go back in time and change everything but I can only live with it. "
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Same Brett, yesterday out of the blue driving home from work I burst into tears saying mom why didn't you wait for me to get there before you went in cardiac arrest, well now isn't that stupid on my part.   I feel that I am a…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I'll keep going though. I'll keep praying. I'll keep putting one foot in front of the other, but I do not seem to get anywhere. I will always pray for a wink or a nod. Just something to let me know that the Lord is walking with…"
9 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Guys, my heart is just broken. So broken. It's not because of some kind of change. It's just three years of sadness that continues to pull me down, and makes me feel that there is very little hope. I am a very spiritual person. When lie…"
9 hours ago
bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him.
"Joe, Thank you for your response, and for providing the link to your post about your NDE as well as describing it in more detail here. Although it's terrible that you were in that accident, in a way it was a blessing for you, in that it allows…"
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Lia, your post made me cry because I also feel similar.  I wish you all strength "
Sunday
Bern commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"2012 September 30th. This fight is real. My only son was shot in the head. The girl and her brother were in the house when it happened. The told police that they were playing with the gun. Well a sister and brother will die and go to hell or heaven…"
Saturday
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Judy sometimes I feel the same way...why do some who don't deserve to live get to while our kids didn't.  And sometimes when I hear others use that word, "miracle" it upsets me too."
Saturday
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Connie forgive me if I screw this up but the line, "Don't cry for me, cause I live in eternity" runs through me head all the time."
Saturday
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Connie what a beautiful gift!!!!! That was Daniel, letting you know he's there. "
Saturday
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Ginger I left all my sons pictures right where they were I need to see them. "
Saturday
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"It's been a while since I've checked in.  I'm actually melting down right now. Don't know what brought it on but can't seem to stop.  I miss everyone and think of all of you all the time.  Michael's…"
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Lia, a few lost minutes cannot compete with a lifetime of love that you shared with your mom."
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