"Just wanted to say, Linda, you have posted really lovely photos.
I understand when you say you can't imagine a future without your soulmate. I try to convince myself by saying that the fact that I still can't accept my loss is…"
"Thank you so much for your comment. So sorry to hear about your husband dying from a heart attack. I completely can understand your pain. It has been about 11 months now for me, and it still feels like yesterday. I don't…"
"Thank you all for your love and understanding. It's so good to hear from others in similar situations. I live in a small community. I have 5 acres and it's overwhelming to step into my husbands shoes and try to take over…"
I know what it's like to lose a loved one to a suicide and my husband only weeks ago passed from a 5 year battle with cancer. I can't imagine what you have been through: plus having to make that decision to let him…"
"So sorry to hear about your loss. I understand how devastated you must be, and such unfortunate circumstances.
I lost my love, suddenly, unexpectedly from a heart attack, 14 months ago. One minute he was here, the next he was gone.
My heart goes out…"
My husband was truly the love of my life. On just a regular day at home, he began trying to cut down a tree on our property. (I didn't know what he was doing at the time). Once my daughter came to look for him, we found him lying on the ground severely injured, still awake and able to converse a little. We called for help and 911. However, at the the time of the accident, Oregon had had a severe ice storm. We had electrical lines down entering our property and electrical lines down all…See More
Just wanted to say, Linda, you have posted really lovely photos.
I understand when you say you can't imagine a future without your soulmate. I try to convince myself by saying that the fact that I still can't accept my loss is because it was so sudden and unexpected, and I'll never be able to come to terms with it. For me, my love isn't d.... He's just not here. I never use that word, never have done and never will.
But then again, I think, having related to others in this group, even when you know your loved one is leaving you, it's equally heartbreaking and devastating. No matter what the circumstances, our grief is equally unbearable, only others (like in this group) who are going through the same grief are able to understand what you're going through, and it's comforting and soothing sharing our thoughts together.
When a heart breaks, you’re left gasping for air. After a while you seem fine, yet fall apart unexpectedly at random moments, sanity seemingly forsaken. There’s a saying that when a heart breaks, it cracks to allow golden love to shine through onto others. Do you see the value in going through this?It may not feel like it now, but grief is an honor. It is an honor to feel that much, to have loved that much. It teaches you compassion, gratitude, resilience, and the importance of grabbing life by…See More
This is a very early response to your email I know, but my sister is arriving today for 2 or 3 days. I have to admit to being nervous. First time having someone stay since I lost Pete. Plus, she will be sleeping in the bed he…"
"Hi Ros, I hope you're not getting too much rain. We are yet again going through a period of persistent rain since yesterday morning and apparently will continue for the next few days. I thought England was bad! The tomato crop went OK, would…"
"yep i get it
loss mom to dem/copd cud not get in to sea her coz of cov 19 ruless in 2021 loss my uncle jon in 2021 bothh of thm 6th mnths aprt
so mushloss in lastt 30 yrs or more shud say loss of 47 yrs omy life coz i am 47 "
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More