Felicia Evans
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  • Pittsburgh, PA
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Give yourself time to heal

Hi,I am so sorry for your loss. it's only been 2 weeks. Allow yourself time to grieve. There is no time limit. I would encourage you to either join a grief group in your local area or get a grief counseling. This has helped me.Everyone grieves in their own way. No one can tell you when to stop. You will never get over the passing of your loved one, but in time you will get through it.Meanwhile, take care of you. Take a long walk in the park or around your neighborhood. Treat yourself to…See More
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About Me:
I'm a 54 year old female. I've been married for 30 years, no children. We weren't able to have children. We have 2 cats, FeFe and Sox. I work full-time at a college. I love writing, gospel music, and dining out. My nickname is Lisa. My family and friends call me Lisa
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My dad passed away 2010, at age 83. My mom passed away August 1, 2014, one day after her 84th birthday. Then my nephew passed away suddenly on November 28, the day after Thanksgiving. He was my closest nephew and more like a brother.
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Just When You Think You're OK

Just when I thought it was okay and my sadness was controlled. It all came back...noi as hard but still there. Today is the 2-year anniversary of my oldest and wisest nephew passed away. He was only 46 years old. I would have never imagined I would be at his funeral...I thought I would go first. I'm a few years older than he was...My world seemed to crumble a little when I heard my sister tell me Artie was gone. I was in shock and disbelief then and I'm still having a hard time not picking…

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Posted on November 28, 2016 at 10:51am

It's so hard

Every day it's gets harder and harder. The holidays were a blur and were not fun as they used to be. No one wants to give it at they're house. We got a rental room but it was timed...next year I may just go to Disneyland. I am in so much pain most of the time. I wanna live but I just my nephew was still here...wish I could have said good bye...he did so unexpectedly and suddenly...never got to say anything...I mis our talks and the funny stuff we used to talk about...I miss my nephew!!!

Posted on January 5, 2016 at 6:50pm — 2 Comments

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At 6:59pm on June 24, 2017, Felicia Evans said…
Thought about calling her...boy that feeling...it's rough.
At 6:59pm on June 24, 2017, Felicia Evans said…
I miss my mom
At 7:24pm on November 28, 2015, Felicia Evans said…
It's been a year since my mom passed away and my nephew suddenly passed of a blood clot in his lung that traveled to his heart. He left 7 children from the age 24 to 5 years old...he and I were close like brother and sister. My mom raised him. I was only 5 years old when he was born. We spent many holidays together. Every Christmas Eve since his oldest was a baby, he had me and my husband over for dinner and movies with his kids, my great-nieces and nephews. We had so much fun. I miss my mom too. She loved us so much...I am trying to comfort his oldest kids...but it's tough because I'm sad myself. I want to do something in his honor so we can celebrate his life. It's really hard especially now around the holidays. My nephew and my mom loved Christmas! My dad passed away first in 2010. I miss him too. He always told me no one comes this way to stay...it's still hard when they leave though. Trying to keep it together...I will see them again one day...still healing, praying, and crying.
At 3:40pm on February 10, 2015, Felicia Evans said…
Thank you. Yes it can be overwhelming at times. I'm sorry for your loss too. My dad passed away in 2010. I don't think we ever get over it. I think we get through it. Some days are better than other days. I pray and ask God for strength every day sometimes all day. It's tough
At 2:23pm on February 9, 2015, Shayna said…

Hi Felicia, I just joined the group. I am so sorry for your recent loss. Losing one family member is rough and I can only imagine that 2 would be unbearable. I pray that you find strength.

 
 
 

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