Comments - I think it's my fault - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-29T13:43:25Zhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=2054931%3ABlogPost%3A162147&xn_auth=noDear Wendy,
First, I believe…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2013-06-13:2054931:Comment:1633182013-06-13T03:46:20.120ZDeb Meyershttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/DebMeyers
<p>Dear Wendy,</p>
<p>First, I believe our heavenly Father determines the hour and day of our death according to his plan. It seems to me that it was your sister's time to go, and that timing had nothing to do with you at all.. I think you are laying a heavy guilt trip on yourself without reason, and I bet that no one is thinking that it should have been one or the other of you and that your parents are grateful that they have you to love ...I hope you can find some peace in my comments. Your…</p>
<p>Dear Wendy,</p>
<p>First, I believe our heavenly Father determines the hour and day of our death according to his plan. It seems to me that it was your sister's time to go, and that timing had nothing to do with you at all.. I think you are laying a heavy guilt trip on yourself without reason, and I bet that no one is thinking that it should have been one or the other of you and that your parents are grateful that they have you to love ...I hope you can find some peace in my comments. Your sister's death was beyond your control. Accept that, and live life to the fullest for the both of you..God Bless, </p> sory abot yore loss wendy i n…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2013-06-03:2054931:Comment:1622132013-06-03T20:46:46.944Zdream moon JO Bhttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/jb
<p>sory abot yore loss wendy i no how u feal wen my dad died geting ther to late 10 mins 2 late he died at 220am we got thr at 230 am </p>
<p>if i new he woz gong to die i wud of stopt all day if i cud go backk in tim all these silly thngs tht goes arond my hed cud i hav stopet him frm dying or i cud of dun more to sav him i no imnot medicl person but lall thes </p>
<p>thn i ask why why him why not me </p>
<p>thn i get peple sayng get over it its easy or forget abot th pleple u hav lost coz its…</p>
<p>sory abot yore loss wendy i no how u feal wen my dad died geting ther to late 10 mins 2 late he died at 220am we got thr at 230 am </p>
<p>if i new he woz gong to die i wud of stopt all day if i cud go backk in tim all these silly thngs tht goes arond my hed cud i hav stopet him frm dying or i cud of dun more to sav him i no imnot medicl person but lall thes </p>
<p>thn i ask why why him why not me </p>
<p>thn i get peple sayng get over it its easy or forget abot th pleple u hav lost coz its easy its ok for thm coz thy hav nver lost any 1 in thr lives yet</p>
<p>all i no its to painful </p>
<p>i did not relize wen u loze pleple we love pleple can be so crulel i alwyz say i hope to god thy go thru life withh out lozing any 1 co\ all i no it hurts to mush</p> Hi Wendy. I'm very sorry for…tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2013-06-03:2054931:Comment:1621512013-06-03T12:41:42.717ZMelisa Chttp://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/MelisaC
<p>Hi Wendy. I'm very sorry for what you are going through. I can relate to that feeling of being completely alone. The thing is, that I think most people doesn't live everyday life thinking that their loved ones could die. My mom died suddenly on January, had I known it was going to happen I would have stayed with her every minute of that day and I might have been able to help her. But I didn't know, and sadly I can't go back and change anything.</p>
<p>You didn't know either, your sister was…</p>
<p>Hi Wendy. I'm very sorry for what you are going through. I can relate to that feeling of being completely alone. The thing is, that I think most people doesn't live everyday life thinking that their loved ones could die. My mom died suddenly on January, had I known it was going to happen I would have stayed with her every minute of that day and I might have been able to help her. But I didn't know, and sadly I can't go back and change anything.</p>
<p>You didn't know either, your sister was young and had a flu, I don't think anyone would imagine she could pass that night. Please try not to hold on onto that guilt.</p>
<p>As for the people who may have hinted hurtful things to you, try not to pay them any attention, they are not worth your time, how cruel of them!</p>
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