Sometimes life seems like a full bag of tons of emotions, and much like a vulcano about to explode is my daily life filled with drama like a mexican soapopera. But the drama attracts more of much the same. And all of a sudden reality is full of crap I forgot where I signed up for it. Well I didn´t. In my case it´s time to refuse answering phone or door and sleep, rest, restore by setting the pace to heal SELF instead the clear option which is to buy sides in dramas that aren´t about me at all. PEACE is not so hard to find in my world, against all odds. But to some around may take a million years if they ever even realized and opted for it. The TEMPTATION for taking our precious PEACE away comes from the 2 menu choices ALWAYS in front of us, CHOOSING BETWEEN 2 roles, VICTIM or HERO. But choosing means giving up precious PEACE. WHY? Because the VICTIM/HERO roles are 2 sides of the same coin and the coin can be named DRAMA. The RIGHT/WRONG are a different story. Because allows us to access facts and express and act acordingly, with the option to be involved just enough to solve the conflict without being dragged to the CENTRE of it. 

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