Mamazing that many people think they should have a vote to what´s not theirs to start with. FEELINGS, I think each and every human being is entitled to the FULL RANGE of their own feelings. And I wonder when people tell us how to feel...if I get a vote back to jump out their crap...or tell them what I feel about thir standards of whatever is the NORM. Reality is we all feel hurt, lonely, happy, wonderful, ugly, pretty, crying, laughing...you know, just the whole human range, but there is a FLOW to it. Depending what´s boiling inside and what person in contact can be a good combination or a deadly trip of TNT finding GASOLINE and the fist word out my way is FIRE. And depending who is around, they can be calm and collect and refreshing, or just days I am feeling crap...they may seem from another planet. Reality is that WHAT WE FEEL in only OUR BUSINESS. And by anyone tellin that, they are quite obviously BEING A JERK. Being kind and considerate to feelings means NOT DICTATING what others feel, but being in a place of ACCEPTANCE and CONFORTING. Or else, what´s the use of labels of whatever crap we impose out there. I realize I have my share of not wanting some peers around and give the run away ordeal such as play boring, say should do this and that...and I catch myself for being absurdly contradictory....or perhaps I just cross over to them feel the presence without them bothering, as if they ever meant. Anyhow, feelings are a messed up thing to even knowing the full range in ourselves and when to walk away before we get to be annoying, and vice versa. It´s odd that society forces us so much to interact. When really we would be so much better off just accepting the people coming and going as part of this ENERGY FLOW that goes beyond faces, places, and times. Trust the universe will put again what´s good for us in the full sense of the wordds around it. Basically the people that come back in shapes and forms eventually will be positive and so many being kind and gentle we are eventually surrounded by the love we DESERVE to give and get...so I m doing my KARMA PIG BANK ACCOUNT here. PATIENCE LOW. GiVING LOTS NICE....getting little crap, and imagination running at times a littlre disturbed. Oh well. LIFE as is. GOD, please give me some profits of the goods I have invested! Need it.

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