It’s up to you to choose if that hole will be filled with pain, anger, and the eternal darkness of loss . . .
Or if you will choose to fill it with light and love and have that hole shine out of you like a spotlight into your life, keeping their memory alive . . .


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Comment by dream moon JO B on December 4, 2016 at 4:45pm

yep so dinana thngs iv did lst 4 yrs iv did not alwayz bst thngs iv dun tryn 2 num  of loss goin thru a botl of wine a nite so did mom but she wz hidin hers she wz she beat brest c but sad she cnt beat alzmrs she cnt it wz coz of so mush loss in 2012 thn 2013 2014 2015 2016 im still loss thn my 4 legd fur kid lucy of 16 yrs i wud sob on speak 2 all my probs 2 had 2 be put 2 slpeep amot of tims she wud jumpp on my keypad in chat on hear i thng pepel on chat usd 2 luv 2 sea her jump on my keypad no it sonds mad it duz  

but getin in 2 y art my footo takin thngs iv cort by acsetend wish cherd pepel up on hear u cud say  amzin frinds iv got on hear we all hear for evry 1 on hear we r

wen my dad pass i ddi a mery box i did i add loeds off stuf in lk persnl thngs i did evn my dads diarys wish i will kp privt i will evn my lucy vacson book  i put in my dads mery memry box i did it had her id pic of her in it did wish stays persnl it will evn my mery sd crd i pit in my dads mery box coz i dnt delt thm now coz thy so cheep 2 get thy r 

i got 2 tiny kitns nw whish thy need my luv thy do im evn of thng fostin cats latr on in few yrs i am 

sorry if im rantin on 2 mush

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