When we grieve we sometimes lose our focus.

You can choose what you want to focus on.  Choose!  Choose what you CAN do. Honor and care for each other… Smile… Say thank you… Let the person ahead of you in line… Hold the door for someone… Help the elderly with a task… Give a compliment… Be courteous and polite… Say hello… Offer help to others… Be a good listener… Start a conversation with someone… Give someone an unexpected gift

just to name a few…

Where will you put your focus?

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Comment by dream moon JO B on December 1, 2016 at 12:24pm

so t diana

thes 2 kitens iv got r  my focus 

Comment by bluebird on November 30, 2016 at 9:45pm

My focus is, as it has always been, on my husband.

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