Today is a dark gloomy day. It seems like everything i have tried to do to make today a good day just wont stick. I miss mom so much. I feel lost without her. i feel like "how do i live without here"? i mean damn at some point it has to start to get better right?

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Comment by Annette Dominguez on September 19, 2012 at 4:44pm

Tiffany,

It will take a long time to get better. If you can, go to grief counseling. I lost my husband on 1/1/11 to an accidental gunshot wound. I didn't think I would every get through the grief. Everything caused anxiety and I was so depressed. I went through several sessions of Griefshare and that helped me so much. If you talk to someone else that has lost a loved one you will feel so much better. They understand and they won't try to fix you. You have to grieve as long as you need to. And don't beat yourself up because you are having a bad day. And cry when you need to cry. I hope this helped a little.

Annette

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