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Comment by jb (jo) on June 2, 2013 at 3:47pm yes i no whot u mean abot musicc marylyn today i woz watchng vintge tv musi chnalle i woz 1 of my dads favrt songs com on imangee by jon lenen it woz it flt lik my dad woz in th room it did
a few tims i thrt iv hrd my dad say my name iv evn jumpt wit shok thngkng it woz him plyng jokes on us lik he alwayz sid wen he woz alibve
Comment by jb (jo) on May 29, 2013 at 3:58pm i tnk we mite hav a ghost in our hous coz wen we went out y day we lockt th living room door so lucy cud not go on a clicking furnsur or wall paper or vandlizing thngs
wen we got bac th living room door woz open i thnk it must of bean my dad playng troicks on us frm hevens gates
to many wed thngs hav hapend sinse he died u put thngs don thn thy trn up later in aner plase
u can put pens on a tabl thn u dont fnd thm till weaks later
even wen th fone rings som tims u get a mumbo jumbo mesage
or my dads moble fone rings speking abot insurnse my dad did not trust lif insurns even i dont now
its so weid even wen i do him letrs ob ballons let thm go thy alwyz pop i no now its 2 mush of cosrinsdense i do now evn som1 els saed its to mush of corisnde u dont get tht many ballons poping lik i hav bean havng
Comment by Tammy Smith on May 29, 2013 at 3:31am
Comment by Kristin Renee on May 28, 2013 at 1:06am On May 8th 2013, my beloved mother passed away unexpectedly. We were very close and her sudden loss has left an immeasurable void in me. In life, she had this special energy and since that day she left I feel perhaps she has been making attempts to communicate with me. The first is the most likely to be a coincidence I suppose but how many coincidences does it take to acknowledge that it might just be something else? The first was a blown light bulb. Following that were two separate incidences (in two separate rooms) of an unexplained vibrating noise - neither mine nor my boyfriends phones are set to vibrate, nor did we have any missed calls/texts/notifications that might've triggered a vibration even if they were. At the time, my overwhelming grief caused me to dismiss those without much thought. The next two incidences, however, really caught my attention and left me amazed and scared and feeling like I was losing my mind. After hours of sobbing and writing a short letter to my mom about how much I loved and missed her, I was about to join my boyfriend in bed in another room. My cat and I entered the kitchen and that's when I heard this mechanical type noise....nearly jumped out of my skin, broke out all over in goosebumps. To me, it had sounded like a drill my boyfriend had used a few days prior while installing our A/C - an item I thought was in the living room which I'd have to pass through to get to bed. I was too freaked out so I just waited until my boyfriend got up for work and told him what I had heard. He then told me that the drill was actually in the car so that couldn't be what I heard. Not being able to find the source of and re-create the noise left me unsettled. What was it??!! I had to figure it out or it would drive me insane. The next night I sat in the kitchen and just tried to focus on what it could've been. After a few moments, my eyes settled on something we hadn't used or touched in months sitting on the counter. It was a motion-sensor snack dispenser that my boyfriend's sister had gifted him for Christmas. After all the candy was gone, it simply sat there forgotten. It's not particularly sensitive; you have to have something in front of the sensor (which is on the underside of the unit, below where the candy would come out) for a few seconds before it turns on. It had not gone off by itself before in all the time since Christmas and there was no one/nothing else in the kitchen but me and my cat and we were both nowhere near it when it turned on. I tested it and sure enough that was the noise I'd heard. I was excited and relieved to have solved the mystery. I moved it to the center of the kitchen table and then spoke aloud to my mother. I told her how much I loved and missed her and how I wanted her to be there with me and if she could just say "hi" anytime how much it would mean to me. I started to leave the room and it activated itself again. It was almost on cue, how could that be a coincidence??? It hasn't happened again and the more time that passes the more my mind tries to rationalize it away. But in that moment....it was so comforting and freeing to believe it was her, that she was listening and still loved me from wherever she was and that we could be reunited someday when it's my time. I want so desperately to believe that.
Comment by Connie Vaughan-Kaplan on May 27, 2013 at 5:57pm On Saturday, my husband and I got out of our car at a local restaurant near a bookstore. I recalling an unhappy incident that happened at the book store between my son Daniel. Then it happened that I looked up and saw a huge bald eagle. We very very rarely have eagles in this area and it was amazing. It soared for about 5 minutes above us then flew towards the mountain where we have across in honor of my son. As the bird disappeared I began seeing swirling white lights in the sky. I just know it was Daniel letting me know once again that he is with us and that he is soaring and free and that all that we felt guilt for was forgiven. I believe it with all my heart and soul. But God I miss him more and more each second. It is just so painful to be here without him so I cherish these communications. Just wish I could give him a big hug. Peace to everyone.
Comment by Melissa D on May 27, 2013 at 2:01pm Hi. I am new to the site. On May 8, 2013 my husband was killed in a work related accident. That day I met with his dad at his house. As we were all standing outside a baby bald eagle kept flying over us. His dad made the comment"That it was Kevin". That night when me and my children returned home from meeting with family our screen door had the lock slightly moved over to where the door would not shut. I was the only one home that day and did not open the door that far. My son looked at me and said that is dad. I said you are right he wants us to know he is with us. The next day I was sitting on the porch talking to my mom and a friend and I heard loud footsteps going through my house. I asked if anyone else heard that? No one did just me. I know when people die suddenly they have a hard time passing over. Later that afternoon I took a walk in the yard and told Kevin I did not want him to go but I knew we would be okay. Since the moment I heard of his death I have had a peace with it. Am I crazy? I just feel he is with me and I know it will be okay. Maybe I am in denial?
Comment by Violet R Schulert Endres on May 22, 2013 at 10:46pm kellie , they arre wrong in my opionion, youll be ready when you are ready, and it may take a long time. is going to for me.
Comment by Lisa Renee Jones on May 22, 2013 at 8:34pm I have felt someone pressing down on my shoulders, this happens when I get really upset. I feel like it is my mother pressing on my shoulders. Whenever I would get upset about something that happened at work she would always say " Just be still" so I feel it is her telling me to "Just be still"; meaning wait on the lord.
I miss her so more and more each day!
Comment by Violet R Schulert Endres on May 21, 2013 at 9:15pm Its like he isnt gone totally,... he still loves me..that helps...
Comment by jb (jo) on May 20, 2013 at 4:13pm i keap on thnkng my dad is palyng jokes on us frm th orht sid thngs go misng th th tunr up in a difrnt plase wen we lats saw th stuff
my cuzen is hav th sam thng from her dead husbannd to iv evn warkt in to a room iv evn saw my dad sitng in thc hairr or warkng arond th house funny hng is my mum has sean it 2
evn ballon r still keap on poping i no now it has to be my dad
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