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Comment by Violet R Schulert Endres yesterday kellie , they arre wrong in my opionion, youll be ready when you are ready, and it may take a long time. is going to for me.
Comment by Lisa Renee Jones yesterday I have felt someone pressing down on my shoulders, this happens when I get really upset. I feel like it is my mother pressing on my shoulders. Whenever I would get upset about something that happened at work she would always say " Just be still" so I feel it is her telling me to "Just be still"; meaning wait on the lord.
I miss her so more and more each day!
Comment by Violet R Schulert Endres on Wednesday Its like he isnt gone totally,... he still loves me..that helps...
Comment by jb (jo) on Monday i keap on thnkng my dad is palyng jokes on us frm th orht sid thngs go misng th th tunr up in a difrnt plase wen we lats saw th stuff
my cuzen is hav th sam thng from her dead husbannd to iv evn warkt in to a room iv evn saw my dad sitng in thc hairr or warkng arond th house funny hng is my mum has sean it 2
evn ballon r still keap on poping i no now it has to be my dad
Comment by Kelli Bevel on Monday I miss my grandma so much. She was everything to me, people tell me to quit missing her, and to let is go. Is this true?
Comment by Violet R Schulert Endres on Sunday Dan was "here" again last night... I asked for him and he came...it was really nice.. I need him so bad still.. I miss him so much .. want to go to Heaven to be with him sooo bad...cant wait til its my turn....he is my soulmate.
A few days after my husband passed, I felt the mattress 'sag' on his side....thinking the dog had tried to climb up, i reached over to push him off. There was nothing there, however, I felt hugged and loved.
Comment by trish on May 10, 2013 at 9:54am With the upcoming 30th anniversary of my dad's passing, I began feeling that he was trying to connect with me. I was feeling sad a lot, and cried frequently. You see, I never felt I had closure. He died of a very aggressive form of cancer, so being his time was limited, he chose not to tell his kids as he wanted to live his last days as "normal" and happy as possible. I did not understand any of this at the time. But in the time I'm speaking of, I felt he was trying to tell me that he had not yet found rest or peace because he's been watching over me, trying to continue to "be there". I really felt like we "talked" about how things had gone. He didn't want to spend his last days watching his children worry, and coddle him. He wanted to remember our smiles.
I decided to go to his grave site on May 4th (30th anniversary). I felt him there. I felt him hug me and tell me it was time I let him go. Finally, I was okay to do this and told him so. I felt an amazing sense of peace come over me. This was all he wanted, for me to understand. I finally do. I will always miss and love him and know that he is never far away. But we now both have peace.
Comment by jb (jo) on April 29, 2013 at 4:06pm im still getn xprsen wit ballons today i thrt i saw my dad in the house i no im not going mad coz i no it shpend to othr ple in hear i
thy go fst iv let thm go in th yrd thy hav all brst i no now ist my dad say im still hear i thn i dnt thn he wil go in side thm gat till we com
i no he wud lik ths song i fnd on vimeo coz its a balled
link http://vimeo.com/53156934 gabrielle aplin 'the power of love' embed code
Comment by Nicole Williams on April 25, 2013 at 8:13pm The night my husband died, my children and I went to stay at his parents house. Two days later I was having trouble sleeping. Long after everyone else went to bed, I was up reading on my Kindle and even went out to the study to get on the computer. At around 2:30 I went back to bed to try once more. I recall marveling at easily my daughter went to sleep. As I lay on my side, about 10 minutes later, I heard my husband speak to me as clearly as any other time he had spoken to me. It wasn't much, but it was all I needed to hear. He said, "Nic, I love you guys so much." I spoke back and said, "I love you too Mark." I know that he never would have left us, but his pain had gotten to great. I DO know that he loves me and the children and he will be watching over us until we are together again. I pray for him every day and ask for a sign that God has healed his heart, mind, and soul. Mark was such a beautiful and gentle man.
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