March 2016 Blog Posts (27)

Book on Thomas Jefferson who suffered 3 child deaths and the death of his spouse

Hello All: I found this interesting book on Thomas Jefferson on his own personal tragic loss. 

He suffered 3 child losses and the death of his wife who passed at 33. He never remarried.

Here is a write up on it:

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My Thomas

Thomas Jefferson lived a great American love story. He was a Burgess of 27 when he met Martha Wayles Skelton, a 22-year-old widowed heiress who was fondly called Patty by her family. They…

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Added by Jesse's Mom on March 30, 2016 at 8:48am — 2 Comments

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Added by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on March 29, 2016 at 1:05pm — No Comments

Missing You

Miss you so much today, Mom.  There is so much I would like to tell you.  It's Monday once again, a day I will hate until God makes things right in Paradise.  Monday was the day I lost you. And how I hate that phrase, "lost you", as though I was negligent somehow and that's why your not here.  Maybe, in a way I was.  I insisted you take that medicine that we now believe may have caused your death. The doctors made me think you had no choice but to take it. I should have done my homework…

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Added by Felicia on March 28, 2016 at 9:52pm — No Comments

Lingering Sadness

My husband of 41 years died 7 years ago. He had congestive heart failure, cardiomyopathy, and eventually liver failure. He was on life support for over 5 months. I eventually had to take him off life support and help him to let go and die. It was a very painful thing to do. Three years later, our youngest daughter went into sudden cardiac arrest and was put on life support for a week before I was told her brain was swelling too much and only her brain stem was functioning. I had to allow her…

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Added by Glenda Lohmann on March 27, 2016 at 9:39am — 1 Comment

More tired, more grief

It seems like I have not been sleeping well. I am physically exhausted but cannot fall asleep. The nights and the mornings are the worst.
Throughout the day now I breakdown more often in tears but I do recover faster.
I am sad and angry all of the time.
I wish she hadn't died.

Added by Jason on March 23, 2016 at 7:23am — 1 Comment

Three years three months today

Three years three months today………..he's still dead, I'm still alive and the pain is still ever present……. Grief is hardly an adequate word……..

Added by morgan on March 21, 2016 at 2:03pm — No Comments

Random thoughts ...

Having a conversation with someone last week it seems no matter what, someone likely, maybe always, suffers in the physical from a death. You have on one extreme as mine, sudden and unexpected. We are the ones to suffer. You have those who are sick prior and by the time they pass, we are relieved they are no longer suffering as the quality of their life was no more. They are the ones to suffer. I don't know there is any scenario death causes no one physical suffering ...

I've had 3…

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Added by rachel_micele on March 20, 2016 at 7:26pm — No Comments

The sad and the guilt

The sad and the guilt are hitting me hard last night and today.
I am so sad she is not alive.
I feel guilty that I could not save her.
She was my wife. She was my responsibility.
I should have taken better care of her.

Added by Jason on March 20, 2016 at 7:47am — No Comments

Remember This!

No truer words could be said: " Just because I'm strong enough to handle pain doesn't mean I deserve it!"

Added by Felicia on March 19, 2016 at 11:30pm — 1 Comment

a medium

I saw another medium, omg she  knew so much, things no one knew but me and shawn. I cryed so hard and so much as she read me. I miss my so so very very much, and I know now he wont leave me. but im still so deeply depressed and under doctors care, I still pray each night to die, ill never be happy again till im holding my son. I stay in my bed a lot, just to tired to do anything, I go see shawn everyday sometimes in his pjs. I feel like this black hole is getting deeper, and there are times…

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Added by kim on March 18, 2016 at 7:32pm — No Comments

A Day Of Dreams or Nancy comes to receive me!

There was a morning last month, I sensed the strong presence of my soul mate. I felt the need to write an emotional treatise of sorts, what morphed into a free verse.  I call it "A day of Dreams".  It became my own "balm in Gilead".

A DREAM OF DAYS     M. Royer    02/17/2016  (Reunion)

SOMEWHERE, OUT BEYOND THE COUNTY LINE SHE WAITS

IN A STAND OF DISTANT TREES…

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Added by Mel Royer on March 18, 2016 at 9:04am — 1 Comment

Listening to music

Hadn't been able to listen to music until tonight.
It didn't destroy me the way I thought it would.
The memories come flooding back but I didn't break down like I thought I would.
Am I in shock?
Am I numb?
Is something wrong with me?
Or is this part of the grief.
My heart feels like it has a chunk missing now. But it no longer feels like there is a knife sticking out of it.

Added by Jason on March 18, 2016 at 12:50am — 2 Comments

My fiancé is dead.

Just had the funeral yesterday, after an extremely intense month, i feel in a different place for today anyway. i can't be sad atm we both loved each other truly and had the happiest life ever.and i think I'm still in shock because the strangest thing seems to be happening too me; i still just feel nothing. its like I'm in a zone, I'm not at work I'm surrounded his family (who i am close to and feel very close to him when I'm with them), I'm texting him everyday, thinking abut him for hours…

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Added by Rose Alison Clift on March 17, 2016 at 6:36pm — 2 Comments

Post one year mark ... pt 2

I continue to feel the need to clear my head and write what I am feeling ...

What my pain says: My life is over. I don't want to be here anymore. [With my situation] it is bullshit how I was regarded. Fucked up how things played out. I deserved better than that. I didn't get what so many others get in the physical and then I don't even get it in death. I deserved better than to have this happen in the first place. I don't know how to live without him. How to live with all our somedays…

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Added by rachel_micele on March 17, 2016 at 6:00pm — 2 Comments

Day 20

Well, it happened. After only 20 days both kids are sick. Great. They weren't letting me get any sleep before. Now I'm up half the night with sick kids.

I don't know if I have the stamina. I am so tired.

I am having problems accepting what has happened. I imagine the kids are too.

What a living nightmare.

Added by Jason on March 17, 2016 at 1:26am — No Comments

Goodbye, sweet boy...

 When I was a teenager, my cousin used to babysit the cutest little blonde headed boy named Casey.  I used to spend alot of time over at her house, and I would play with Casey, hold him in my arms and rock him and pretend he was my baby.  I loved his chubby little baby arms and cherubic face.  I must have kissed his cheeks a thousand times!   When I grew up and married, I had a little baby boy --blond headed and adorable, just like Casey!  So I was very shocked tonight when I read Casey's…

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Added by Felicia on March 16, 2016 at 11:56pm — 1 Comment

Before the Storm Hit...

I lost my dear sweet mother on March 3rd of this year... Just 8 months after my Dad passed away.

She feel into a diabetic coma exactly at the 6 month mark. She had stopped eating and taking her medication once my dad had passed away.    While she was in a Coma, I was faced with the same decision we had to make when my dad fell into a coma and…

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Added by Alin Tooby on March 16, 2016 at 5:30pm — No Comments

if a dreams just a dream, how did I feel him x

Last night , I had the most amazing if not slightly confusing dream, it was the kind where you are unsure if it was a dream or that it really happened. I remember it just being a standard dream , some random man was following me and I ran into a room to hide , this is the point it got weird, I was standing facing a wall when all of a sudden I felt arms wrapped around me from behind and put them hands on top of mine, I instantly knew it was Andy , I just felt it , I even said Andy is that…

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Added by joanne on March 16, 2016 at 4:53pm — No Comments

I'm Here...

 Been fighting a nasty cold for a week now.  I have eaten so much chicken soup that I think I'm going to grow webbed feet and a beak!  Amazing how something that can only be seen under a microscope can cause you so much misery, or even take a life.  I was remembering, today, how I got a very bad case of the flu when I was six or seven years old. My fever went so high that I began to hallucinate. Saw creepy, crawly things going up and down my bedroom wall.  But what I remember most was Mom's…

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Added by Felicia on March 14, 2016 at 5:35pm — No Comments

Post one year mark ...

March 10th was one year. What to say about it now ...

As for sleeping goes I am back to being tired all the time, sleeping a lot and struggling for energy, severe depression, etc.

There is still a huge frustration as to exactly what I'm feeling and/or feeling both extremes of a spectrum at the same time and in a way that has been atypical with the prior oxymorons of this hell. Such as numb right beside all the rest of the feelings. Numb hasn't been a big player for me so to cry…

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Added by rachel_micele on March 14, 2016 at 2:36am — 2 Comments

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