Karen T.'s Posts - Online Grief Support - A Social Community2024-03-28T12:15:06ZKaren T.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KarenTurnerhttp://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/2767216030?profile=original&width=48&height=48&crop=1%3A1http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profiles/blog/feed?user=2j4yqk0v1ue7b&xn_auth=noTo tell or not to tell?tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2015-03-25:2054931:BlogPost:2256772015-03-25T01:43:57.000ZKaren T.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KarenTurner
<p>My husband and I had discussed that this past year we were going to tell my son the truth about santa, etc. Then my husband passed in October so I didn't want to take that magical experience away from him even though he's 9 because it was so close to his father passing. Now with Easter coming up- has it been long enough to tell him the truth about the bunny since he is 9 now or should I let him hold that for one more year? Very torn.</p>
<p>My husband and I had discussed that this past year we were going to tell my son the truth about santa, etc. Then my husband passed in October so I didn't want to take that magical experience away from him even though he's 9 because it was so close to his father passing. Now with Easter coming up- has it been long enough to tell him the truth about the bunny since he is 9 now or should I let him hold that for one more year? Very torn.</p>Life Suc can't bond with my sontag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2015-03-17:2054931:BlogPost:2249432015-03-17T00:01:24.000ZKaren T.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KarenTurner
<p>Right now no matter what I do everything seems to be wrong when it comes to my son trying to deal with this also and it is a big thing for him so I am trying to do special things. Today I made reservations for horseback riding (which I love and am experienced) and he wanted to do for the first time finally. After I made the redervations he was happy for a while but then it was right bacj to yelling at me and hittting himself in the face making me feel like the worst mother in the world. I…</p>
<p>Right now no matter what I do everything seems to be wrong when it comes to my son trying to deal with this also and it is a big thing for him so I am trying to do special things. Today I made reservations for horseback riding (which I love and am experienced) and he wanted to do for the first time finally. After I made the redervations he was happy for a while but then it was right bacj to yelling at me and hittting himself in the face making me feel like the worst mother in the world. I just try and try but everything seems to some out wrong. I put everything I have into him- only to get a broken heart in return and no one to comfort me anymore. So- as I said life sucks.</p>Just a friend looking for other friends :)tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2015-02-09:2054931:BlogPost:2200012015-02-09T16:48:29.000ZKaren T.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KarenTurner
<p>Just wanted to say to everyone, please don't feel nervous or uncomfortable talking to me after reading my blog if you are not religous or or religions clash views. I will only talk about you, your feelings and what you are going through. I promise I'm not going to be "preachy" or anything like that, I'll just ne a good friend e=with an open ear and open heart. Love to everyone and hope everyone is making it through the day alright. :)</p>
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<p>Just wanted to say to everyone, please don't feel nervous or uncomfortable talking to me after reading my blog if you are not religous or or religions clash views. I will only talk about you, your feelings and what you are going through. I promise I'm not going to be "preachy" or anything like that, I'll just ne a good friend e=with an open ear and open heart. Love to everyone and hope everyone is making it through the day alright. :)</p>
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<p>If it was off putting to anyone I do sincerly apoligize- that was not my intent. I just mean to show love and peace to everyone going through what we are all experiencing. Love to all.</p>For those who don't believe...tag:www.onlinegriefsupport.com,2015-02-09:2054931:BlogPost:2199992015-02-09T15:44:08.000ZKaren T.http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/profile/KarenTurner
<p>I would like to say to everyone first that I am not here to change your mind or try and brainwash you or something to that effect. So, if you can have an open mind for just a few minutes and keep reading, I promise at the end it will be your choice to believe or not to believe.</p>
<p>Please bear with me if I stumble or am repetative, I don't mean to and it doesn't mean I don't know what I'm saying, it's just that I don't know how to say some of the things I want. My husband was the preacher…</p>
<p>I would like to say to everyone first that I am not here to change your mind or try and brainwash you or something to that effect. So, if you can have an open mind for just a few minutes and keep reading, I promise at the end it will be your choice to believe or not to believe.</p>
<p>Please bear with me if I stumble or am repetative, I don't mean to and it doesn't mean I don't know what I'm saying, it's just that I don't know how to say some of the things I want. My husband was the preacher in our family and he was going to teach me how to be a good and effective soul-winner, however he did not get that chance, the good Lord took him from me and this painful earth for the peaceful Heaven before he was able to. So I'm afraid you are a bunch of my guinea pigs, lol, sorry.</p>
<p>The first thing I would like to pose to you is if there were not a God, were did everything/ everyone come from? Science tries to explain it away- but if you really look deep into math's timeline- it doesn't really add up with all of the items that have been found. And to that account- how can you explain there being seashells at the very top of mountains were it takes man many attemps, and difficult ones at that to reach. Even on his death bed, the great Darwin, took back everything he had ever wrote and admitted that he was wrong.</p>
<p>Next, I would like to speak about ghosts. I know many of you have these stories, I myself have some. Here is the scary thing...ghosts don't exist (to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord). What we perceive as ghosts, reasonable harmless, are actually demons (yes deamons are real and here on earth doing the devils business). The good thing. for all you paranoid movie-buffs out there, a demon cannot inhabit the same place as the Lord. So, if you have invited the Lord into you heart and are a true born-again Christian- then you don't have to worry a deamon cannot possess you becuase your heart is already filled with Christ. Now, with that being said, even if you are saved they may not be able to enter your body, but hey can still inflict pain and misery to those people, places, and items any time they want. I have some of mu own personal tales but we won't get into those now. If you would life to here them feel free to email me and I'll be happy to share.</p>
<p>Once you have accepted God in your heart you will feel a change in everything and especially in your heart. The best way I can describe it is like being wrapped up in a warm blanket and nothing can get to you there. I say this, but of course, the world is still the same miserable place it was before, the difference is how we walk through it. We know that this is not the end. When we do pass on, we will be walking on streets of gold surrounded by beautiful mansions (1 of which is ours), all of our pain and sadness (physically and emotionally) is gone- a long distant memory soon forgotten, and we will be reunited with our loved ones who had gotten their first. The only emotion now is happiness. The happiness in our heart while alive time infinity.</p>
<p>That is why, yes it is hard on the physical and wprldy emotional side to loose my husband& soul-mate, but I do have some comfort knowing that he is watching us from Heaven as our own personal angel and we will soon be with him for the rest of eternity.</p>
<p>If there is more you would like to discuss with me about this feel free to email me and questions or comments and I will be more than happy to be here for you.</p>