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- I am not good writer but i think somebody will understand my grief and me.I loast my mother feb 8th 2016.she lived with me. Jan27 2016 she went to walk she ate lunch with me drank tea around 4p.m I went to her room sit talk with her about back home (india). she was ok no sign of sickness. I am working nights then I told her mom i am going to sleep because i have to go to work tonight,she said ok around 4.45 pm my husband went to her room if she need anything because has to go out,she said no i am ok. then around 6pm my son pass front of her room he saw she was sitting on floor and gurgl like gar,gar.he call me he call her i ran to her room and hold her head on my arm and shaking and calling her mom mom loudly and my son call 911,first police officer came he was looking her and start to open package for oxyzen,and i loudly said please officer hurry up she is going she is going,then next second she put her head on my shoulder.then emt came start cpr send me and my sons other room after 10 min they took her to hospital and said her pulse came back. we went to jfk hospital around dr. came to us said her heart failure,may be blockage we will put pacemaker we said ok.they was ready to do the procedure then her heart beat came back by .dr told us. we was happy she came back, but after that they start to telling us make the decision, i asked for what decision, they said she is in critical condition,second day they said she has sezers in her brain then they did ekg which was normal in eeg they said she do not has any brain activites. they control her sezer then they stop her medication for brain they said if she will response us then they know how much is damage in brain, every day i go spend time with her call her, message her feet, hold her hand, wash her face, wash her feet,tickling ,pinching but i never got response, I asked brain dr. her heart beat is ok bp is ok,sugar is ok why she don't open her eyes, he said brain is dead lack of blood or oxyzen. they said now machine is breathing for her we don't know if we take off machine she will breath or no.I talk to heart specilist,every body said no chance which was very hard for me to make the decision because i am alone here with my husband and my two sons. my brother is india.I explain them everythink they said whatever you think we are with you.I pray to god and we went to hospital and tell them ok take off machine. they did 9pm sat 6th feb. she was breathing byherself until monday i went monday morning in hospital she was breathing but tight breath, i prayer for her put some religious prayer. rub her feet,hold her hand wash her face call her mom i love you too much. She passed away 3.15pm monday Feb 8th 2016. now i am crying everyday my inside is empty.I miss her too much I took off from my job.I do not know how i will heal this loss.I love you too much mom.
- About my Loss:
- I lost My Mother couple days ago. I am still in shock how it happen because she was not sick.
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