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Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hey Joe. so sorry to hear of your over whelming sadness and longing to be back with her. i hope you day gets better. kindest thoughts and wishes regards Monty"
Dec 3
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Morgan so sorry to hear that your having such a bad time of it. have you tried writing a journal (not necessarily of your emotions) but what your doing. you may find upon reflection that there is something thats happening / hearing / smelling…"
Dec 2
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thanks M Adams. Im glad that you found some of it helpful "
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"sorry re double post."
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Linda Im sorry to hear about your niece and her loss   My thoughts on the issue of grief is likely cute different than others, as every ones grief is a very personal process to journey though.   I would surest that the culmination of…"
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Comment by Monty 11 minutes agoDelete Comment Hi Linda Im sorry to hear about your niece and her loss   My thoughts on the issue of grief is likely cute different than others, as every ones grief is a very personal process to journey…"
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi linda. sorry if i ranted or vented a little none of the second section was intended to any one regards Monty"
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Linda Im sorry to hear about your niece and her loss   My thoughts on the issue of grief is likely cute different than others, as every ones grief is a very personal process to journey though.   I would surest that the culmination of…"
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi All as mentioned previously i have been doing a bunch of reflection as the first anniversary of my Wife's death is rapidly approaching ( as is Christmas). i have been struggling with thinking.  Its like my head is full of thick soup.…"
Nov 26
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"i'm so truly sorry for your continuing pain. and not because i don't feel the loss and pain as we all do in our own way. i think the main reason i am continuing to keep on going is need to for my children. having two dependant children…"
Nov 12
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"hi linda. thanks for reply i'm ordering 4 NURF guns and after xmass lunch we are going to chase each other around the house and shoot the kids (more like miss the kids and over exaggerate being hit by the kids). that and a few beers seemed to…"
Nov 11
Monty and M Adams are now friends
Nov 11
Monty replied to Kyle McKay's discussion Lost my wife in the group Lost My Spouse...
"thanks ill check it out I've been accessing support though  https://www.grief.org.au"
Nov 8
Monty replied to Kyle McKay's discussion Lost my wife in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi in looking into https://www.griefshare.org it appears to be a US Church based support groups. thanks for the info though"
Nov 8
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi All I'm still here plugging away at life. As the 12 month anniversary approaches of the passing of my lovely wife, I've been assessing my self, my grief and how things are going. i had previously written a list of things i felt and…"
Nov 8
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi it seems to be a common thread amongst people who have lost their most loved ones. its been 11 months now since i have lost my wife. i have had counselling and am attending a mens grief group. i try to be busy most days. the work week is…"
Oct 21

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Im a 50 Yo male with 2 special needs children
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my wife died suddenly 4 days before christmass
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I feel like you are going through a rough time right now. You're not alone. One of the great things about a site like this is that you are a world away but I know who you are and I know that you are missing your mom just as much as I am.…"
22 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Agree Brett. Completely. My mother used to worry about small things and I used to get irritated sometimes. But now I miss it"
22 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My mom worried about every detail of my life. There are some who would say that is intrusive. I felt that she was just being a mom. I miss that so much. I had the flu last year. I was laying in that bed and all I could hear was silence. My mom would…"
23 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Good morning Adams. It is 9:40 AM in India and I am at my job and trying to concentrate hard as my Mom always wanted.  I have almost stopped complaining of anything in life now as I have already lost my most precious gift. Now what ever I have…"
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, the fact that you were close enough with your mother to share your negative feelings about your job shows real intimacy, which I think is what loving mothers treasure above all else.  So hard accepting that we will not hear that beloved…"
yesterday
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Even my mother always used to say that live your life fully but I was always complaining on some matters. She used to worry about me the most as I was not stable in my job and used to talk about quitting it often. She always used to say, love your…"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, my mom said those exact words....."
Saturday
morgan commented on Alice Thompson's status
"Alice,  I regret not getting it together to write on Dec 2nd as I recall that was your anniversary of your husbands death date.  I have just been swimming upstream through the rapids.  Each year during the "seasonal"…"
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Your mom sounds a lot like mine. She also used to say, "I lived my life, now you have to live yours." "
Saturday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"You know what when my mom could not be resuscitated, her eyes were wide open and looking toward the right towards me as I walked in, she saw me I know it.  I shut her eyes.  I wanted the hospital staff to leave me alone.  They were…"
Saturday
SeLV commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Let those tears flow.."
Saturday
Alice Thompson posted a status
"Still here; still missing my love with all my heart; hoping we can all get through another lonely holiday season."
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"SelV, your mom would have had it no other way. She saw you take your first breath. You saw her take her last. I experienced that as well. If I had my way, I would have gone before my mom. Is that selfish of me? Yes. I don't care. Losing mom was…"
Saturday
SeLV commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Dear all...the thought "What if I had died due to unforeseen circumstances and my elderly widowed mother had to grief my death?" crossed my mind many times. Knowing my mother, her world (of me and her) would have collapsed and she would…"
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I think you're right, Theresa. We are a sad bunch. I think our moms would be touched that we love them so much, but they would probably also want us to be happy and move on. I just don't think that's possible, nor do I believe that my…"
Saturday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"So I have been really busy at work and with moving, but of course at night when I get in bed I cry and cry. I finally have come to realize this will be the new normal I guess, I do not think I will every stop missing my mom ever..."
Saturday
Dennis C. replied to Pamela philipp's discussion Cancer Sucks -- how do I deal with this
"Pamela Cancer is indeed a plague. Death from cancer is only part of the story. The journey from diagnosis to death is horrific and overwhelming. Even though cancer effects a lot of people, there are so many that just don't understand how…"
Friday
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