hi,i am so sorry for ur double loss,unless someone losses a child ,spouse or family member they wont understand and each person grieves different,for u it is harder b/c u lost 2 brother,so u feel double tthe pain..how r u doing now? my 2 yr old son caden was murdered my my now youngest baby's dad and each day i ask god to bring him back but what keeps me sane is knowing my baby is in a better place then we r,he is an angel and my 4 other children help me cope but it hurts and its always going to..i dont know if u would be interested in counseling considering u lost 2 people u love at the same time and if ur not ready i can try to try help u as much as possible if u want..my email is sweetj2699@yahoo.com