""I am only relating my own experience because I feel like I had been lied to about grief. I think society gives a timeline and then judges a person as dysfunctional. I guess I'm here to dispel that notion as false. This is a journey like…"
"I'm so sorry for the loss of your people, AnneJ.
I'm worried about living out the remaining time here. The drudgery of it. Because I can sense that I'm done forming close relationships now.
I guess I could look at the remainder of…"
"You are and will always be my hero.
You showed me that I didn't always have to do it on my own. That I didn't always have to be 'Miss I Can Take Care Of Myself'. That you were and would always be on my side; there to wipe…"
"I am so sorry.
My daughter had 6 miscarriages. It was HORRIBLE. The pain never goes away.
I don't believe that everyone goes to heaven. I believe that one day everyone who died will be brought back to life here on earth (it will be a paradise…"
"John 5:28,29 — Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice 29 and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life......
What a wonderful promise. It can give us…"
I can so feel everything that you are describing because not only is it so hard to feel so disconnected, but we all know that this is not a short path or that any of us want to walk this path and yet here we are forced to try and undstand…"
"JO, Yes. Too many people we love are gone. It's starting to hit me deeper and deeper, because I got married almost 20 years ago and I know I built a wall of protection around me. My husband was my Great Wall of China.
And now I'm…"
Three years ago I lot my daughter Monica, I had what is called a late miscarriage at 22 weeks. It has always been nearly impossible to talk about what happened, even to my mum or to her father. I kept it all inside and it destroyed me. After I lost her, all I felt was despair, the world had no colour anymore, everything was dark, grey and pointless. I was in so much pain, felt so much rage and anguish, yet I was frozen, I was numb, I tried desperately to find another reality, escape from…See More
"Nadin, am withyou in this awful time, impossible to go through yet thats what is to be done. Connie, Mary Chris, Teresa, Michelle, Dolly and all my dearest friends, am with you .... always... its so damn painfu' and I am rt now in Eugene…"
"I hope everyone was able to find some peace today.
I'm thankful for all the love and support that I receive from my family and friends and I'm forever grateful for the friends I have here that have given me the support to keep going…"
"C.R.....there is no comparing ones grief to another, fact is, our pain, sorrow and heartache is the same. You are as lost without your husband as i am without my son. We are all just trying to find our way. Hugs to you dear."
"I wonder why I saw her. I have been trying to see D but I can't see him.
Maybe it was something she did.
I always thought it must be real, that she was really there, because, in dreams, my vision's not blurry."
"D was here at home and they would not let me put my arms around him.
My arms still scream out of my skin to hold him. My heart is raging and railing, sometimes I picture myself picking things up and throwing and breaking them.
But I had held him…"