"I think if I had that conversation with Andy, I would have told him to be happy and live his life, I know he would wouldn't want me to be like this, but it's easy to say those things, but when you actually experience the loss of the person…"
"I have never been part of a chat group or an on-line group so not sure how to this. I couldn't even figure out how to add my photo. It kept telling me it was too small lol. I lost my dad in February. It's strange. I am a mom and married.…"
"That's a good question Stewart. I know if it was me who died first I wouldn't want my husband to sit around grieving his life away. But on the other hand to know what I know now of how it feels it's hard not too. But I wouldn't…"
"Im curious who of any among us here, if we were sitting down with our spouse at this very moment and everything was like you use to be. Lets say we were sitting down and just talking and the subject of one of us passing away kept up. Im…"
"Charlie. I think it would be good to take those baby steps but only if you think you can. Maybe just pick one and like you said you don't have to continue if you don't feel comfortable after the first try. Maybe the Uber one - less contact…"
"Charlie, wow youve hit the nail on the head so to speak where Im at only it me a couple of years longer. Really tough to do, I want to try things out and many times right up until the moment its time to begin than suddenly I drop out. …"
"Charlie, this is how I felt throughout this past year. Much prefer being home doing my own thing just surfing the Internet or vegging out. I'm not pushing myself and have no one to push me or make suggests about my state of mind. It's…"
"I'm wondering if any of you have experienced what I'm going through. My beautiful Dreamgirl took flight on March 21 of this year. Since then, like most of you, I'm devastated, destroyed, lost, alone, etc., paralyzed, anxious and…"
"Denise my thoughts are with you with your struggles. I understand your feeling disconnected ... Like everything is unplugged and "alone".
That will be nice I think living with your daughter - would be less lonely I would think. Hugs to you"
"Mary,I am in the middle of a war between my youngest daughter and my oldest daughter.They can't stay in the same room together.That is making the grieveing process even harder.Some one to talk to keeps me from exploding.I wish it was…"
I lost my wonderful husband to colon cancer 3 years ago. I still miss him terribly but the grief is not as bad. My brokenheart will never mend. I still a shrink to help me get through life without him.
The house was so empty without…"
"I know how you feel up until one week ago all I had was pictures I keep saying if we only had the voice well we do my daughter found a voice message on an old phone it brought tears to my eyes and it really didn't make me happy because the only…"
"I could not imagine lossing so many people I lost my soulmate and I feel like my life is over, I think we all are looking for peace. To be able to not feel so empty,lost and alone I hope that peace finds you"
"I know how you feel and understand my Kevin has been gone for six weeks today and everyday seems harder not easier. I have just learned to live with the fog my husband was cremated I have a necklace with his ashes around my neck, we did have a…"
"Hi Denise. We are here for you. I too don't like the word widow. I still feel like a wife but who has lost her husband.
Was curious about how you feel about going to see a councillor- do you feel it helps a little. It's been 9 weeks since…"
"Today has been very hard.I went to my second counciling session .I have not thought of myself in so long I don't know who I am. I am a widow now which I don't like.I am a mother, a grandmother, and a great-grandmother titles that…"