"Dolly - thanks. Everything you say makes sense, especially since I can hardly look at pictures of my Mom to this day. For some reason I can look at pictures of my Dad but not my Mom. It just hurts too much. I had an…"
"I found my therapist thru my friend I met while working as a pasyndrome dic on the air force base. She came home from Iraq with severe PTSD. After becoming friends we realized I had seen 100x more dead and mortally injured people than she had... I…"
"im seeing a therapist now, it helped....and they have me on meds, hopefully i will get straight soon....i also have PTSD....but its not severe....its only occurs if something in the past comes up that triggers it....thanks o much for your…"
"read something today that reflected 'moving on'... “If your mind carries a heavy burden of past, you will experience more of the same. The past perpetuates itself through lack of presence. The quality of your consciousness at this…"
"Grief Stage 4 of 7
4. "DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS-Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you. This is a normal stage of grief, so do not be…"
"vickyj i luv dreams wen iv lots famly its past in dreams thy r happy again no ilnes all lk yng again full of engy
but all i get told is my imaginsnaton is 2 over ative maybe it is
iv even bean told im sily coz i beleve in ghots i…"
"Susan, how lovely that Tom's friend is being supportive and kind. I know that is a special blessing to you. Just remember the good and try to let the bad slip away and I will try to take that same advice. Blessings!"
"Thank you, Mary, for your very kind words. There is such joy in those dreams and then such profound loss when I realize the next day is here for me but not him. I know that he wants me to go on.....and expects me to do so......and I won't…"
"Hi Vicky. I haven't had those type of dreams but it sounds like your subconscious mind is working through your loss. Dreams are said to be our means of understanding what is happening in our lives. If it were me, I think I would savour these…"
"You are very lucky to have these things of his; Mark and I were planning to marry in April and basically, I have nothing of his. He had meant to change his will once we learned that he only had 6 months and then he died suddenly a week later.…"