"Not for me. My mother died 1 year ago.
Nothing changed, the pain is the same, sometimes even worse. I'm exhausted.
But I'm feeling some heartpain lately maybe its over soon... Then I can finally rest.
During the tragic loss of a loved one or having gone through several tragedies , be it death of a loved one, divorce , personal health issues, or getting older , ect. Sometimes the stress and depression compounded by grief can be debilitating and it may have us feel as if we are mourning our own deaths while we are grieving the loss of our loved ones , We feel as if our own lives are over , Being in this mode can make recovery a longer more confusing process for some. It can be uncomfortable to…See More
My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to stop drinking again. I'm a recovering alcoholic also but I was sober for twenty five years before I lost my first wife. I was fortunate not to be…"
"John, I completely understand how you feel. So many people think that there is a time limit on grief. I still grieve for my first wife and now I grieve for Cherie also. When we lose someone we love so deeply a part of ourselves dies with them.…"
"Hi Nancy, I am so sorry for your pain. I was very close to my mother who passed in October. What you are describing is what I miss most about my mom too. Sometimes something good will happen and I want to tell her about it then I feel sad I…"
It's been a little over two months since my boyfriend killed himself. Since it happened everything has gone to hell. I've had to withdraw from school, I lost my job, and worst of all, I've lost my spirituality. I am an alcoholic and was doing really well; I hadn't drank in a year and half and was going to meetings, but I've relapsed. I really want to get back on the wagon because drinking is only making things worse.The reason this is so hard, aside from the fact that the love of my life is…See More
"Hi Matthew I'm really sorry to hear about your sister. My little sister passed away unexpectedly in Feb....it has been a horrendous time but compared to you I feel relatively fortunate...my sister died from carbon monoxide poisoning and she…"
"I miss my mom so much at this moment. I've missed her every moment since she passed on April 18, but my heart is especially heavy tonight and I find that sleep escapes me once again. I wish I could hug her and hear her voice. I never realized…"
"Yes, m morgan. I'm getting the distinct impression from my family that they believe I'm not making a real effort to "feel better" and my grieving has become prolonged after 8 months. I've mentioned here before…"
Sorry you've had to go through the sickness and in health part without your spouse. I've been sick twice now since my husband died and then the worst was when I fell off a ladder from ten feet up and landed in a bed for two…"
"big c is so not fair evry funrall iv bean 2 says famly flowrs only donte 2 big c or lung c i no money coz of a loss is mush betr dontatd 2 big c thn flowrs its so sdad so sad we hav 2 loss evry 1 coz of it"