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About my Loss:
My daughter's father just recently passed of a drug overdose. My daughter is 8 years old and the hardest thing I've ever had to do was tell her that her hero was gone. Its crazy because he wasn't even an addict. He did a few drugs here and there that I knew of but nothing crazy and then boom one day I get a call from his girlfriend informing me he's gone. It tore me right up.. I couldn't believe I was hearing this. We got together when we were 17 years old and at 19 we had an amazing little girl, after she was born our relationship wasn't so great. We would argue and the respect was gone for one another. We grew up so fast and so young and at that point it was to much for him to handle so we split up. He was still involved in our daughters life and every other weekend she would go to his place. After everything we went thru we put everything aside and we became civil with one another. I can actually say we had a great relationship. I found someone new and so did he and we were even able to all hang out together. It was great. My daughter loved when we'd all be together; she'd even comment that we should all live together. It was so good that my partner was even friends with him and sometimes we'd even go out at night without kids. And then I hear he's gone..just like that. It broke me and im still so broken. I just dont understand how he just left like that. went out one night did a few drugs and bam hes out of our lives. My daughter's hero is gone! I'm so up and down with emotions I dont even know what to think and to top it off he has 2 other kids with his girlfriend. one of them not even a month old. it's so unreal and so depressing. what i wouldn't do to just have him here so that my daughter can see him again. They had such an amazing bond and now its gone. How do u cope with such a sudden loss? I'm trying to be strong here for my little girl but its tearing me up.

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