I am a 61-year-old mother who lost my youngest daughter in September 2020. I am now raising her 12-year-old son, my heartbeat, alone.
About my Loss:
My 32 year old daughter, Tianna, was chronically ill. I was her full-time caregiver as she spent the last 3 months of her life in "in-home hospice." I have been taking care of Tianna and my gbaby, Ellis, for the last 8 years as she was disable. The pain of her death has turned my world upside down and I just cant seem to get a grip! I need to be strong for Ellis, but there is a hole in my heart that can't seem to heal.
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