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Loss of a mom & Unhappily Married
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I just recently lost my mom to cancer, and I have been unhappily married for years. My husband and I married late in life. We married in our mid 30's back in 2013. I'm now 42, and he is almost 44. We…Continue

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bluebird replied to Shayla's discussion Loss of a mom & Unhappily Married
"Shayla, I am not in your situation, but since you have had basically two significant losses (the death of your mother, and the death of a happy marriage), it might be helpful for you to consider seeing a therapist. At the very least, it will give…"
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Joe von Anjou replied to Shayla's discussion Loss of a mom & Unhappily Married
"Hi Shayla, I am not married at all, but I lost my Mother in April to a five-year battle with vascular dementia. I do not know anything about being married, much less unhappily married. However, I can tell you that my mom's lost hurts more now…"
Jul 25
Shayla commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi everyone. I lost my mom to cancer May 2020. She fought the battle for 20 months.  She was my best friend. Unfortunately, I am UN-HAPPY marriage. We got married late in life. I'm 42, and he's almost 44. We have two children together…"
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Loss of a mom & Unhappily Married

I just recently lost my mom to cancer, and I have been unhappily married for years. My husband and I married late in life. We married in our mid 30's back in 2013. I'm now 42, and he is almost 44. We have two children together (ages 4 and 6).Anyone else out there experience a loss of a parent while being in an unhappy marriage.See More
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Shayla left a comment for Robin Charles
"Robin, I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I can't begin to imagine the pain from losing a parent so suddenly like that. I just lost my mom 2 months ago. The pain, the loneliness, the sadness, is unbearable at times. Last…"
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About Me:
I'm 43, unhappily married. We got married late in life, have been married 7 years, have two children ages 4 and 6, I'm a Christian (Baptist - denomination). I live in Tennessee and am from Alabama.
About my Loss:
Lost my mom to cancer this year (2020). She fought the battle for 20 months. I feel like I really need to meet others in a similar situation. Others who are Unhappily married who have recently experienced a loss of a parent. I feel so alone.

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bluebird replied to Shayla's discussion Loss of a mom & Unhappily Married
"Shayla, I am not in your situation, but since you have had basically two significant losses (the death of your mother, and the death of a happy marriage), it might be helpful for you to consider seeing a therapist. At the very least, it will give…"
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