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Shauna
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- Three Rivers, MI
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- About Me:
- Im 30 years old, married and lost. My whole world crashed when my mom passed away. There is a whole inside me and im not the same person anymore. I always thought I was strong
- About my Loss:
- My mom passed March 9, 2016 in hospital from complications of COPD and pneumonia. She had severe scoliosis and hadn't been out of her house but a few times in the last year. My mom was a fighter and has lived her life in a lot of pain but she was so strong and raised my brother and I and struggled to keep the farm house we all loved as a waitress. Within the last 2 years she had fractured her spine and broken ribs along with frequent infections. I thought that my mom could beat anything. we went to hospital Feb 24 and the ER doctor was horrible to her. Sent her home with diagnosis of COPD exasperation despite her telling him she knew something was really wrong. We went to her family dr a week later and after blood tests her dr called that night and told her she needed to go back to ER. She was diagnosed with Pneumonia. She retained so much carbon dioxide on her brain and refused bypap and there was nothing I could do. After few days she was unresponsive. My brother and I stayed with her in her room every day. The morning of March 9 the respitory therapist came in and gave her a breathing treatment. About 20 min later I was sitting in her bed with her and realized her oxygen wasn't hooked back up. She was gone. I feel like they robbed her of her deciding when she was ready to go. I cant take the way the ER dr treated her and how much pain she was in. Her pain and suffering consumes me.
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