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Shantel Collins
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how long will evil people triumph?
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Im just confused. How long will evil people triumph? Why do the good die and the evil people get to live? Why is it that rapists, and cold hearted people live, meanwhile good people, who never did…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Kandi Broussard Oct 26, 2011.
I wish I knew why bad things happen to the best of people.
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I was thinking, my brother was a very good young man. This is a person that was kind, funny and sensitive. He got a woman pregnant and took responsibility. He was looking for work and wanted to be a…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Amanda Ab Sep 4, 2011.
how do you get over guilt?
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Sometimes when a person is in your life, you take them for granted and dont appreciate them as much as you should. Now that they moved on to the next life, it is too little, too late to say I'm…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Shantel Collins Sep 3, 2011.
I like this biblical poem
I dont have much faith in god anymore, but I do like this poem. I thought to myself when I see my brother on the other side, we can recite it to each other. It seems a bit romantic of a poem for a…Continue
Started Aug 31, 2011
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- About Me:
- I'm a 22 year old college grad, coping with the loss of my young brother.
- About my Loss:
- My brother was only 17 years old when he was shot to death by some thug in the street for no reason at all. A friend of his made some people upset, and my brother was killed because of it. He was a bright high school student, who was expecting a child. My niece was born recently. Unlike some people twice his age, he actually wanted to be a father and looked forward to taking responsibility for his action. He had perfect attendance and had plenty of friends and teachers that can vouch for him. He was not involved with gangs or drugs. He was a funny, and smart young man. A much more mature person than I ever gave him credit for. He already went through so much pain, and now this. There are so many negative people in the world that are so much deserving of this fate. My brother did absolutely nothing to deserve this. I admit, we didn't always get along perfectly but I never wanted this to happen. Now I will never have the chance to get closer to him, like I looked forward to before he died.
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I miss my Mom!
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LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITE…
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Too Young To Die
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Losing a Sister
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Multiple Losses Group
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Grief Counseling
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Losing a sibling
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Lost both parents
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"Thanks, Rosie. (I have memory problems and forgot about this site. I'm just seeing this now. April 6th)"
LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITED loss and grief
Anyone who has lost their gay partner..soon finds that there may be a few things that are different...such as sorting through things and feeling like an intruder because it is also family stuff etcSee More
Assumptions
An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true. Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions. This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
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shantell,what you are feeling is ok.In a world without justice,and with the myth of"karma",where killers frolic in the sun,while thier countless victims lie in graves and urns,it is totally understandable to dream of killing/torturung the killers.I sometimes daydream of what I would do to the killers of my sis and fiace.It can be verry greusome and eveloping.I just try to limit the time i spend dreaming of chopping/gutting them to death,so that it doesnt destroy my whole day.If this was the old west we could ride off together and avenge their deaths.that would be ~dreamy~they deserve to die.,and nothings wrong with u that u feel this way.