"What kind of counseling do you offer? I tired quite a few therapist - all of whom were disasters with one suggesting that I was a vicitm of "voodoo" - I almost lost my mind. But now, I think I have finally found someone and it is the first…"
"About 2 years before this happened I read a book by Pim van Lommel on Near Death Experiences. I highly recommend it and find it still helpful till this day. I think the suggestion of things that can help us as proposed by Sara is good. "
"I feel the same way. I joined months ago but cannot speak. I also go through life not being able to talk about the violent death of my husband. I was never able to say good bye and never got to even see his body. It is not possible to talk with…"
Welcome to a safe place to pour out your thoughts,heart and pain. I can not imagine your loss or pain. Know the people here support and don't judge. That was really important to me when I became a member little over 2yrs...hugs
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Welcome to Online Grief Support - A Social Community
"You had half your soul ripped out... basically. Of course you're going to struggle.
Most folks just don't get that because they are still fine. They have not been so deeply wounded and have nothing to compare your struggle to.
"I have a rollercoaster. Some days I am fine alone, others I simply need a wife to love on and make stuff for and ask her opinion. That's just how it is. I don't get a choice and folks who constantly tell me "get over it, it's…"
"I have to look forward or I just want to lay down and die. My son needs a dad. He needs a mom too but I can't find a woman who will step up and do that for him.
She died when he was 5 so he didn't know her well. He has not had a mom since…"
"Just got here. Widowed at age 28. It took 18 hours from healthy wife to no more wife. That was nearly 8 years ago. She wanted me to move on and I wanted the same for her if I went first... strange that we had the conversation mere months before her…"
"The dr from the hospital talked to my therapist. I didn’t get any more answers. I am convinced they gave up on her and since I did nothing, I’ll never know if she could have been helped. I can’t fathom why I acted…"
"I feel for you Brett if you are fighting all this alone. A big hug from India.
Last few days were really guilt stricken for me as I was at my hometown and all memories of my mother's treatment were refreshed and it really pains.
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Kim and Joeann joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
"It only rains here when I want to go to the pool.
I am worried about Bluebell as well. I think she would have chimed in by now if she was feeling well.
I had a selfish moment today. I actually have a lot of those. I was at the store and I started…"
strange, I had and continue to have similar problems regarding what to say about myself in this context, but somehow I stumbled here after my husband's death and it has been helpful. Just reading of bereaved people's…"
"Before this nightmare I myself would never have imagined how debilitating the loss of a spouse is. Tracy B 2014
I thought I would be able to focus on my career to help me heal, but I don't even like going to work any more. At home, I can't…"