"I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Robin. It's such a horrible tragedy. I too lost my only daughter. She was killed in an accident with an impaired driver. She was at college when it happened. The driver got…"
"Robin, what a horrifying tragedy and terrible loss. Losing your baby girl and your baby grandchild, oh God. I do not know how the human heart can still beat with this kind of grief. I just wanted to reach out and give you respect and compassion.…"
I lost my only daughter and unborn grandson. They were killed on October 17, 2016. An 18 wheeler decided to do a u-turn on a rural county road, in the fog at 6am. My daughter never saw the trailer. Our family is so lost, heartbroken, angry, and numb. Her life was just getting started. They had just bought their first home, the baby was due Dec 6th. A baby shower was planned for Oct 22nd. Instead, we had a funeral. I have gone back to work. I hold up until lunch and then fall apart.…See More
I started this group so that people who have lost their only child or the only child that remained, as in my case, could come together because I believe people that did have a child or children who now have none have special issues.
Robin, what a horrifying tragedy and terrible loss. Losing your baby girl and your baby grandchild, oh God. I do not know how the human heart can still beat with this kind of grief. I just wanted to reach out and give you respect and compassion. AnneJ
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Welcome to Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Yes, grief is unbelievably exhausting. I am simultaneously always tired, and unable to sleep without pills. When I have stuff I have to do, like doing the laundry or grocery shopping, it takes me hours to work up to doing it. I can manage…"
"Melissa, I remember the early days. I remember wondering about bills and what was I going to do and how was I going to do it because all I wanted to do was lay in the fetal position on my bed and cry and yet I had to go to work and on and on…"
During the tragic loss of a loved one or having gone through several tragedies , be it death of a loved one, divorce , personal health issues, or getting older , ect. Sometimes the stress and depression compounded by grief can be debilitating and it may have us feel as if we are mourning our own deaths while we are grieving the loss of our loved ones , We feel as if our own lives are over , Being in this mode can make recovery a longer more confusing process for some. It can be uncomfortable to…See More
"Can some please tell me, is grief truly exhausting. It seems like I can barely stay awake when I get home. I get up at 4:45 in the morning and at work by 5:45. I usually leave around 2:45, hoping to have some energy to do things at…"
"Jules I understand some of what you're going through. Yesterday would have been our 14th wedding anniversary. Instead, it was a day of pure misery. It's only been six weeks since my 47-year-old husband passed away from…"
"Its a long time to have your brain wired to someone else's. I find I am still struggling pretty much daily, sometimes moe severe than others. Right now I am going through having to pack up and move from one place I lived to another…"
"Jenifer. I lost my love to stage IV caner and we had 27 days from diagnosis to death. He was 63 and in 2 days would have been his 68th birthday. No kids and one cat who belonged to him and stayed with me afterwards until she too died.…"
"Adria, I lost my husband over four years ago and I am not inspired. I am just going through the necessary motions. People want me to feel or they encourage me that I hopefully will find something that will bring back my spark. Its…"
"Be there. Let her call and cry to you. Dont offer advice. Tell her how sorry you are this is happening to her but you will be there for her whenever or for whatever she wants or needs and do that. Let her exhaust her…"
"June 23/17 - Dear heart, I cannot imagine the pain you are in with all that loss and horror. I hope I can communicate with you in the future, I am also grieving many losses. I am an Ordained Minister and I believe in the power of prayer…"
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
I am very sorry for your loss.
I believe that one day we will be reunited with our loved ones. Until then I rely on that belief to keep me looking forward and hopeful. This certainly doesn't take our pain away, but it does keep us focused…"
"It's been a month since I buried mama. The world seems surreal to me now that she's gone. I love her so much. I refuse to use the past tense because to me love never dies.
I know grief is a process, but one I'd rather not have to…"