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Paul replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Holidays Again
"Linda, I wish I could sleep thru these holidays as well. Then forever after that........"
Wednesday
Paul commented on Niomi Johnson's blog post Today would have been my husband’s birthday.
"Hello Niomi, I wish to extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of your spouse under what must be the most heart breaking circumstances imaginable. I lost my wife on March 31 of this year after a six year battle with breast cancer. I can relate to…"
Nov 9
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"bluebird, As bad as I feel now, I do not look forward to the holidays as this will be the first holiday season without my beloved wife. We also met on a New Year's Eve and I am really dreading that day. I can't see myself lasting years on…"
Oct 15
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"This seems to be an especially hard time for a lot of us lately. I feel exactly the same way as the previous 4 posters."
Oct 15
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Nancy, I believe the poem/song is on the comment wall and was submitted by stewart p on October 6 at 11:53 am"
Oct 12
Paul commented on Joy's blog post Grief Share Support Group
"Joy, Good luck with the group sessions. I hope that it goes a long way in easing your pain."
Oct 12
Paul and Michaela waldier are now friends
Oct 8
Paul left a comment for Bryan Kelly Reeves
"Michaela, you tell them that unless they have been through it themselves they should "F" off. Especially what you had to witness. My heart goes out to you."
Oct 8
Joy and Paul are now friends
Oct 2
Joy left a comment for Paul
"Paul, I'm very sorry that you lost your wife, Kathy and the tremendous void her passing has left you with. I'm sending my prayers up for you and your family too! I hope you've found some comfort from the site. We all know…"
Oct 2
Paul replied to Joy's discussion Recent Events
"Well said, Joy. There never seems to be a shortage of misery in this world."
Oct 2
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Your situation pretty much sums up my hellish existence on this earth, JenShep. Others just simply can't grasp what you, I and the others on this site are going through on a daily basis. It's been six months without my wife now. I…"
Sep 29
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, Thank for the advice. Babie J is adorable! My wife loved dogs as well and one of her last words to me was to take care of our 2 sons as well as our dog, Lulu, a black puggle. I agree with you that dogs are better than most people. I found out…"
Sep 16
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband. By reading your comments I can truly feel how close and special your relationship was with him. It was the same with my wife and I. Four years seems like an eternity to me now. How do you…"
Sep 16
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Kim, I could have posted your comment just about word for word. I am 5 1/2 months into this hell and cannot foresee myself lasting years in this mindset. As far as I'm concerned, I have one good day left, the day I'm finally off of this…"
Sep 15
Paul replied to Maxey's discussion Total numbness in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Maxey, Please do not harm yourself with the pills. Your husband would not want you to do that to yourself. All of us on this board are living in this unwanted and undeserved hell of losing loved ones. We are here for you. We are here for each other."
Sep 12

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About Me:
54 years old, devastated and heartbroken.
About my Loss:
Lost Kathy, my beautiful wife of over 26 and a half years to metastatic breast cancer after 6 years of courageously fighting this dreadful disease on March 31, 2017. She was my everything and I have just about given up my will to live after losing the love of my life.
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At 5:00pm on October 2, 2017, Joy said…

Paul, I'm very sorry that you lost your wife, Kathy and the tremendous void her passing has left you with. I'm sending my prayers up for you and your family too! I hope you've found some comfort from the site. We all know what it is to lose someone we love dearly, so we all share a bond that way.

Thanks for responding to my post. It is very tragic what's happening. The only consolation I find in all of our losses is that our loved ones don't have to deal with any of the crap happening here in this world anymore. That doesn't help those of us left behind because we're still here dealing with it every day.

 
 
 

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Bailey Smith commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thinking of my American friends on this site celebrating Thanksgiving. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
" Thank you for the big hugs and prayers Luisa. Stay safe on your journey. Thank you Theresa for reminding me that God is always with us. I will be praying for all of us as we get through this one day. Bluebell"
yesterday
Luisa Salter commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell big hugs and prayers sent your way! Big Hugs and prayers to all. I have been really irritable and emotional all week. Dealing with a lot of stress at work right now and somewhat dreading Thanksgiving. So we’re here, and Teresa’s…"
yesterday
BLUEBELL left a comment for Brett Bowman
"The holidays are coming up and the anniversary of your sweet Mother's death. How are you? Bluebell"
yesterday
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"So today is Thanksgiving, we will all get through this day and tomorrow will be back to normal, the next hurdle is Christmas. Its a tough month for me it will be 18 years on 12/14 for my dad and 2 years on 12/19 for my mom and my grandmom on…"
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell you are not alone God is right beside you always."
yesterday
Crystal K commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Let us all get through the next day and next few weeks... Been replaying videos of my mom all day.. miss her so much. First xmas without her, cant even bear to think about it."
yesterday
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Sam Hayward commented on Jarvis's blog post After Death Communication
"I had a visual experience after my husband died. I was in bed at the time and could not get to sleep so I just lay on my back and stared up at the ceiling. Suddenly the room filled with a brilliant white light tinged around the edges with mauve. In…"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Again, thank you both for your kind words. I am feeling better already. I do not need much and I am grateful to you both for helping. Bluebell"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"And I of you. It is good not to feel so alone. Bluebell"
yesterday
Bailey Smith commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thinking of you Bluebell."
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Bailey Smith and BLUEBELL are now friends
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BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thank you Sherri. My best to you always Bluebell"
yesterday
Sherri commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell your in my thoughts I'm sending you a great big hug"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am really hurting right now. A kind word to me would be very much appreciated. It does not have to be much. I just need to know I am not alone. Bluebell"
yesterday
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bailey, I cannot speak for Sherri but my Mom passed away 9 months ago and I go through the same thing Bluebell"
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