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Paul commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"29 years ago tonight I met a beautiful, young lady who would eventually be my wife and mother of our two sons.  That beautiful lady was cruelly taken from me this past year by the ruthless monster called cancer.  Kathy, I love you, I miss…"
Dec 31
Paul left a comment for Edward L
"Edward L You are correct. If you pay attention, the subtle signs from loved ones do appear."
Dec 31, 2017
Paul left a comment for Debbie brisky
"Debbie brisky, First of all, I wish to offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your husband. I lost my wife of over 26 1/2 years to breast cancer exactly 9 months today. As crazy as it sounds, what you are going through right now physically and…"
Dec 31, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Alice, You should not feel at all guilty for expressing your true feelings. You, I and the others here have been cruelly and unwillingly put in this, our worst nightmares come true, without any foolproof way to cope with it."
Dec 30, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"morgan and JenShep, Both of your comments really hit home with me. There is seemingly no way out of this relentless hell."
Dec 28, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, As hard as it is for the rest of us to endure the upcoming holidays it must be at least doubly difficult for you given the circumstances your husband and you were dealt with.  To everyone here who has put up with this hell for multiple…"
Dec 14, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Count me among those who are looking forward to death after losing my wife. I am absolutely not interested in anything else."
Dec 13, 2017
Paul replied to Linda Engberg's discussion Holidays Again
"Linda, I wish I could sleep thru these holidays as well. Then forever after that........"
Nov 22, 2017
Paul commented on Niomi Johnson's blog post Today would have been my husband’s birthday.
"Hello Niomi, I wish to extend my deepest sympathies on the loss of your spouse under what must be the most heart breaking circumstances imaginable. I lost my wife on March 31 of this year after a six year battle with breast cancer. I can relate to…"
Nov 9, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"bluebird, As bad as I feel now, I do not look forward to the holidays as this will be the first holiday season without my beloved wife. We also met on a New Year's Eve and I am really dreading that day. I can't see myself lasting years on…"
Oct 15, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"This seems to be an especially hard time for a lot of us lately. I feel exactly the same way as the previous 4 posters."
Oct 15, 2017
Paul commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Nancy, I believe the poem/song is on the comment wall and was submitted by stewart p on October 6 at 11:53 am"
Oct 12, 2017
Paul commented on Joy's blog post Grief Share Support Group
"Joy, Good luck with the group sessions. I hope that it goes a long way in easing your pain."
Oct 12, 2017
Paul and Michaela waldier are now friends
Oct 8, 2017
Paul left a comment for Bryan Kelly Reeves
"Michaela, you tell them that unless they have been through it themselves they should "F" off. Especially what you had to witness. My heart goes out to you."
Oct 8, 2017

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About Me:
54 years old, devastated and heartbroken.
About my Loss:
Lost Kathy, my beautiful wife of over 26 and a half years to metastatic breast cancer after 6 years of courageously fighting this dreadful disease on March 31, 2017. She was my everything and I have just about given up my will to live after losing the love of my life.
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At 5:00pm on October 2, 2017, Joy said…

Paul, I'm very sorry that you lost your wife, Kathy and the tremendous void her passing has left you with. I'm sending my prayers up for you and your family too! I hope you've found some comfort from the site. We all know what it is to lose someone we love dearly, so we all share a bond that way.

Thanks for responding to my post. It is very tragic what's happening. The only consolation I find in all of our losses is that our loved ones don't have to deal with any of the crap happening here in this world anymore. That doesn't help those of us left behind because we're still here dealing with it every day.

 
 
 

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Jenni H posted a blog post

Totally tired of my life and lack of emotions.

My mother had a stroke in October of 2015. She changed over night due to the aphasia and brain damage. She was a new person, half of who she once was. I began grieving my mother in October. I turned of all emotion and detached myself during the caregiving. It was just way too hard for me to deal with her conditions and my father's emotions. My family are gifted with abilities, mine was empathy and third sight. Most may not believe in that stuff, but it is more than real to me due to years of…See More
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Fernanda Alonzo joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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Fernanda Alonzo updated their profile
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Suzette Laree Arch replied to Suzette Laree Arch's discussion 4 months and I can't stop crying in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"I wish I had your strength and thoughts - I just want to stop missing him "
yesterday
Jamie replied to Jamie's discussion I'm new here and going through a very hard time. in the group Multiple Losses Group
"Thank you so much. I've been journaling but I hadn't thought about writing things I want to tell them. That is a great idea. Thank you so much for your response and kind words."
Friday
Becky W replied to Jamie's discussion I'm new here and going through a very hard time. in the group Multiple Losses Group
"Jamie - I am so so sorry for your losses.  Some of my multiple losses have included sudden, unexpected deaths too & they can be the most difficult ones sometimes.  I found journaling to be of comfort.  I was able to write my…"
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Jamie added a discussion to the group Multiple Losses Group
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I'm new here and going through a very hard time.

Hello everyone. I'm new to this site.I lost my grandfather in June of 2017. A few weeks later, my grandmother passed away. My grandmother and I were very close. She was more of a mother to me than a grandmother. It was very hard on me. Only three months after the death of my grandma, on December 18th of 2017, my father passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly. I never got to say goodbye. I lost the three most important people in my life within a few short months and I am having a very hard…See More
Friday
Jamie joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
Friday
Jamie updated their profile
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Profile IconMiriata Oranje, Fernanda Alonzo, Kristyn Lohoff and 8 more joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Jenni H commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Lost Without My Mom
"My mom died on February 25, 2017. She had a stroke a year and half that rendered her paralyzed and she had aphasia. I was her caregiver. It was extremely impossible to stomach seeing my mother constantly in pain. My nerves and mental state was gone…"
Friday
Jenni H joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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Lost Without My Mom

My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.
Friday
Raven Richardson posted a blog post

I'm so hurt

I feel like my i have no support. I lost my bf and oct of 2017 and i lost my baby Nov 2017. I'm so hurt. I dont have anybody 2 talk 2. My bf family dont even check on me 2 make sure I'm ok. See More
Friday
Kyle McKay replied to Kyle McKay's discussion Lost my wife in the group Lost My Spouse...
"thank you sweetie its hard"
Friday
Darien replied to Suzette Laree Arch's discussion 4 months and I can't stop crying in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Not sure why I didn't get a notice about your post. I always try to respond promptly. As it is, I got a notification for a post I can't find, so.... In a little less than 4 months it will 2 yrs since I had my soul shredded. I'm…"
Friday
Rhonda Robinson left a comment for Michele Huddleston
"Can't imagine what your feeling ..I just lost my mother 12-1- 17..please talk to someone that can help you..maybe even a pastor..go to church. .if you don't go at least pray..pray for strength  and comfort..give yourself time to feel…"
Thursday
B.Windsor posted a blog post

it's been one year

Tomorrow, it'll be one year since Shelby died. No matter how things seem at any given time, the darkness has set in.  i just can't shake it.  i've continued having physical issues going on, and haven't been able to get in to see the doctor, yet--my appointment is for Monday.  i'm tired of trying to keep going.  i still haven't even begun to work on the planning of Shelby's going away party, yet, either.  *sigh  At this point, my hope is that once i can get straightened out, or at least find out…See More
Thursday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Mine as well."
Wednesday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"TTo My Husband Julian"
Wednesday

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