Lola V
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About Me:
I'm a 2nd grade teacher. I have two grown children.
About my Loss:
I lost my husband to colon cancer.

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At 11:36am on June 29, 2009, Gina Stroup said…
By the way, you will love this site. We are a compassionate group of people:)
At 11:35am on June 29, 2009, Gina Stroup said…
I lost my father due to SMOKING and my husband to CANCER. My father passed away in 2005 and my husband in 2007. My husband an I were together for 27 wonderful years. He treated me like I was the love of his life. Our relationship was amazing, I think that is why it is so hard to let go... I have not even thought about moving on with another. Although it is very lonely, sometimes i pray that when the time is right, the lord blesses me with another man to share my life with...many blessings to you, and i hope you find a great support group.
At 7:15am on March 31, 2009, Jarvis said…
I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the community. (((((hugs)))))
At 9:59pm on March 30, 2009, Gina Stroup said…
When did you lose your husband? I lost mine June of 2007. I had a sad day on my birthday a few days ago. I am past that now.
At 9:58pm on March 30, 2009, Gina Stroup said…
I can honestly say that I feel your pain. It will never go away, but it will get more tolerable. I have more better days now than sad ones. I have a great support system at church. They knew my husband so it makes it easy to talk with them. I am reminded to remember what a great man my husband was and to remember the good times we had together. I can cry at any time but when the tears flow I know Dell would not want me to be sad. The night before he went into the hospital he told me "I LOVE YOU WITH MY WHOLE HEART". That was his last words to me and he passed away three months later. I look at pictures and can feel him sometimes smiling back. I can not move past him yet, but I can survive in my life. I know what you are feeling and you are not alone but try to find a happy place in your heart. God Bless You, Gina


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