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Lisa Marie Steinberg
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Memorial Benifit Fund
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Last night was the hardest and best and shittest night of my life. We had the Memorial Benefit for Dave. I had some really open hearted discussions with everyone. Thank You to everyone and anyone. Wh…
Started this discussion. Last reply by Lara Mar 16.
Valentines Day
Since Dave passed away 2 weeks ago. It has been rough, I miss him so bad. It consumes me everyday! THis Valentines day stinks because everyone else is with there boyfriend or husband. And my boyfrien…
Started Feb 14
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you made it through a tough day it is amazing how strong you can be in difficult situations.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I just lost my boyfriend on 01-08-2010. So I know exactly what you are going to through. The family and I are still waiting for the autopsy report to find out what exactly happen to my honey. I spoke to him the mo…
Last night was the hardest and best and shittest night of my life. We had the Memorial Benefit for Dave. I had some really open hearted discussions with everyone. Thank You to everyone and anyone. Who has helped in some little way to get my ass thro…
Dave is in your heart, no man made board will bring you closer to him.
I am sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of 25 years on Jan10th he died on the operating table undergoing a liver transplant. I undersrand your feeling of being lost. I sit at home not being able to do anything I feel like an empty shell.
Since Dave passed away 2 weeks ago. It has been rough, I miss him so bad. It consumes me everyday! THis Valentines day stinks because everyone else is with there boyfriend or husband. And my boyfriend and love of my life is gone. I wonder what hes d…
I believe in God and Jesus. But where is Dave? Is he with me or is he in the woods some where still deer hunting. Is he with his sister. I want to get a spirit board and find out. But I know that is VERY VERY dangerous. I'm just wondering if anyone…
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- About Me:
- Im the kind of person that most people like. My Dad has always said to me, Lisa just be as good of an egg as you can be. And if they dont like you, they are jelous of you. So, with that knowledge, I try to be a sweet, and loving person.
- About my Loss:
- My boyfriend has passed away 5 days ago. We were very intimate and we loved each other deeply. We did EVERYTHING together.
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Two Months Ago
Two months ago, I lost Dave to a chest aneurysm. Talked to him 3 hours before it suddenly happened. Poof...He's gone. This has been the longest and quickest two months I have ever lived out. He is still in my 6 year old's mind; like the first thing this morning he says, Mommy I sure do miss Dave. We are still crying inside... Dave's family has been in contact with me (his son and sister) on a weekly basis. So I am thankful for that. I still f
… ContinuePosted on April 1, 2010 at 2:41am —
Ya, Get Over It!
My best friend and lover has been gone now for 5 weeks. And thats it, EVERYONE expects you to be over it. I havn't been trying to drag everyone down with it all. I been kinda quiet. People are expecting me to date and hop in the sack and just move on. Never to mention it again. Well let me tell ya, I'm not done grieving, I still love him, this isn't for attention, I got a fucken hole in my heart. I am not ready to move on and forget the man that was there for me the most. People are so selfish,… Continue
Posted on March 8, 2010 at 3:11pm — 2 Comments
Where are you Dave?
I believe in God and Jesus. But where is Dave? Is he with me or is he in the woods some where still deer hunting. Is he with his sister. I want to get a spirit board and find out. But I know that is VERY VERY dangerous. I'm just wondering if anyone has some sort of answer. I wonder if he can hear me.
Posted on February 10, 2010 at 9:31am — 3 Comments
I Love you Baby
I lost my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. He passed away on 1-29-2010. He had a blood clot in his chest. It was called a chest aneurysm. So there were no signs or symtoms. We did EVERYTHING together. Shopping, errands, cooking, went to work together, raised kids together, showered together. We liked to hunt, fish, camping, hiking. If we breathed the same air we were close enough. I Love Him So Much. I don't know how to live without him. I'm so fricken lost.
Posted on February 2, 2010 at 4:18pm — 4 Comments
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- At 10:17pm on February 4, 2010,
Angela S. said…
- it will get better but not right away... it will take time. In my mind, I felt married to him so just the thought of dating another man turn me off even through his parents and I discuss it already a tiny bit. Right now I focus on helping them and helping myself to be strong and just to cope with day by dad. You will be strong. Just try to cope. That is all anyone should ask right now. Just remember to keep putting one foot in front of the other
- At 10:11pm on February 4, 2010,
- hi Lisa, hurting like hell. it will. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. It does. It will be two months that my wonderful amazing handsome Pavlos pass away and I know tomorrow I will be falling apart. It was also the last time I saw him (Friday) alive and Saturday morning I get a call from his parents telling me that he never arrived. The police had to call me later on to tell me what happened.
It will hurt. It will hurt like hell. you will be crying, freaking out and etc to how you grieve. Yet through all that you got to remember that he loved you and you loved him. I got into an argument of what's worst... divorced or death of a love one. Each one is different but losing that speical person who love you who most is so difficulty that I believe that our wonderful boyfriends would want you to try to not fall apart completely and try to be strong. No one is telling that you need to be that right now but you need to realized that help is the best thing. Help guide us to what to do while we figure out in our heads how come. but then again, it would rive you simply crazy. I recommended seeing a psychologist. Through some people don't want to see one, it's amazing and I find them so helpful. they are not pushing meds on you unless with no choice yet they really listen to you and help you with your emotions so you can stay together a bit longer then the last time you did so. I know I'm babbling but I'm trying to say the best way I can explain it. I'm still falling apart but I'm trying for Pavlos. because I know that Pavlos would want me to be strong enough to suvive day to day. Yet he know that I really need to gieve. Just like your boyfriend will know it to.
- At 11:42pm on February 2, 2010,
- Hi Lisa, wow. I'm so sorry. I lost my bf on December 5 2009 after some idiot went through a 30km zone going at 120km at least and hit him in the driver car side. I'm till in shock. The shock never leaves you. It's just trying to find a way to put one step in front of the other to just try to cope, Your lucky you got a long time. I only had 10 months but we did so much things in that 10 months, that most couples would have done in 2 years. The lost feeling I know what your going through. I'm still feeling loss. They say it's suppose to be easier but I'm still waiting for that part. all I'm doing is learning how I can breath probability without passing out from anxious on being alone. I would suggest talking to a professional after the funeral. They best one would be a psychologist. I see one plus 2 doctors and a mental health nurse just to try coping now. First see a doctor and get to see a psychologist as soon as you can first. Then go from there. You will make it. We all will but it's a long long process. and we will go through the process together and help each other out to find the energy to keep keeping one foot in front of the other.
You will never stop loving him just I will never stop loving my boyfriend too and they knew it. We are the one's who need to realized that they already know it. by keeping them in our hearts and tryto not fall apart and get sick ourselves.
- At 11:19pm on February 2, 2010,
Charlotte said… - I am so sorry for your loss...there are no words... just know that you are not alone and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my 35 year-old son on Thanksgiving Day to a drug overdose but I am taking one day at a time and just crying when I feel the need plus prayer has given me so much comfort. I am trying to stay busy plus this site has helped so much too.
Take care,
Charlotte
- At 3:14pm on February 2, 2010,
paula ingalls said…
- hi lisa, i am truly sorry for your loss, its not a good place to be. i lost my son in a car accident sept 24, and i know ill never get over it. just stay with the group and hang in there, i dont know how much beter it gets,for im not there yet. but my prayers are with you. it does take time, and it sems and i guess is a horrible thing to go through, but youll do it with the help of eveyone. love and hugs, you are in my prayers paula
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Dear Connie: My heart goes out to you. I lost my Daddy May 7, 2010, just 8 weeks after my younger brother died unexpectedly. My Daddy & I also had some bumps in our relationship through the years. He was 84 years old, but I wasn't ready yet. I won't…
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To One In Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
The Light Beyond
The Gift That Freed Me To Give
A significant lesson for me has been understanding and accepting that our greatest gains often come through experiences in our lives that may be extremely painful. My father, Raphel Orval Beason, died less than four months before I was born at the age of 19 in an explosion at the Port Chicago U.S. Navy arsenal near Oakland, Calif. He was among 320 men killed on July 17, 1944, when two merchant ships blew next to...The loss of a son
Mother's Day will always be the anniversary of my son's death, no matter what date it falls on. May 9, 2010, the day I lost a piece of my heart. I have vivid memories of that day but they are brief glimpses only. He called that morning to tell me Happy Mother's Day Mom! I love you! I remember being 250 miles away from my home, my other child and my family. I don't know...Try tapping, it works wonders...
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When a friend or family member experiences the death of a loved one, we quickly offer our condolences and help. Listed here are eight practical suggestions for helping a friend or family member that has just suffered a loss. 1. Offer to answer the telephone or answer emails at the family's home. Telephone calls and email can take up a considerable amount of time. Take messages and give information to friends and family. 2. Volunteer...Badge
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