KIM Montgomery
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KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Today is an especially rough day, can't really nail it down to one thing.  So many things going through my head.  I have had 2 weeks to my self to process everything that has happened in since my husband's diagnosis and passing.…"
2 hours ago
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Nancy, yes it sounds like there were a lot of similarities in our situations.  I married late and so we would have celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary on August 16th of this year.  Jack's birthday was 12/29/2017. Cancer took my…"
15 hours ago
Nancy replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Kim.  We have a lot of similarities.  Lost my husband to an aggressive cancer May 10th.  We had his celebration of life May 19th and it was truly a celebration with music, stories, food, a bonfire.  Just what he would've…"
23 hours ago
KIM Montgomery replied to Jules's discussion Lost without my husband in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Wow, I totally understand how all of you feel.  Jack and would have been celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary on August 16th of this year.  He passed on May 2, that started as renal cancer and spread into his lunges, bladder blood and…"
Saturday
KIM Montgomery commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Cancer sucks.  My husband didn't even last 6 months."
Wednesday
KIM Montgomery joined Katherine Ellis's group
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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
Wednesday
KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I like the T-shirt wear it with pride.  I like to come on here daily lately it helps me.  I feel so alone right now.  I miss Jack.  I was talking to our friend yesterday and he told her he was not afraid of dying, but he was…"
Jul 18
KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello, last night was very interesting.  I heard my husbands footsteps up and down the hall twice, like he was telling me he was with me.  When I woke up I found myself in the fetal position on his side of the bed.  I want this pain…"
Jul 17
KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Elynn:  Yes it is Sunday one of the hardest days of the week for me.  I know the feel alone feeling.  I have my 2 dogs.  They have been my savior.  You can always share on here.  On here we all totally understand your…"
Jul 16
JenShep replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi all, I just wanted to say how much all of your comments ring true to me and that I cry for you all and for myself as I read them.  I hate that all of us have to go through this.  It sounds like none of us want to be here anymore.…"
Jul 15
morgan replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Kim, we are all looking for some sanity in this forest of grief.  I remember at one point relating how this felt to my sister.  I said:  It's like I am in a forest of trees with lots and lots of fog.  And I run full tilt and…"
Jul 14
KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I am sorry if I repeat some of the stuff on here.  It just goes through my thought system all of the time."
Jul 14
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"HI Meva and Lost with out him:  thank you for your support.  I believe if it wasn't for this site and the Grief Support group I would be totally crazy. I can relate to every word both of you are saying. No my family have not been in…"
Jul 14
Meva L Cox replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"HI Kim, It will be 6 months for me on the 30th of July since My husband and best friend made his way to Heaven. It isn't much easier today as it was when it first happened. I tell everyone I am living 1 second at a time because in the next…"
Jul 12
Lost with out him replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Kim: Your words are exactly how I feel. The Grandchildren make me become more emotional as his absence is more apparent. Are you sure that your friends and family are tired of listening to you cry? Have your friends been in your shoes? I am sure…"
Jul 11
KIM Montgomery added a discussion to the group Lost My Spouse...
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Grief

It has been 11 weeks since my husband has passed.  We are planning the celebration of life for him.  I miss him so much the grief is eating away at me.  My heartaches everyday for him.  I want to talk to him, touch him kiss and hug him one more time.  He had the most beautiful blue eyes.  The best hugs. I feel so alone even when my grandkids are around. I know my friends and family are tired of listening to me cry.  They all want me to feel better and be ok.  The truth is I am not ok.  I am…See More
Jul 11

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About Me:
I am 53 years old,
About my Loss:
My husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Kidney cancer 1/23/2017, they told him he had 2-4 months, he passed on 5/2/2017

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At 8:56pm on July 19, 2017, irina s said…

Kim i friend request you with my cell num.. hope u rec..

At 8:33pm on June 26, 2017, Joy said…

Kim, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. I know it's hard. I lost my mom on May 17, 2017 and the loss is very painful as I took care of her for almost three years before she died. I'm glad we have this site so we can pass words of sympathy, support and encouragement to others who are bereaved of their loved ones. My sincere sympathy to you.

At 6:09pm on June 4, 2017, Richard Rivera said…
Sending you my sympathy and prayers that you survive each day with as little pain as possible.
At 4:27pm on May 24, 2017, Nora said…

I am so sorry, Kim. It is very hard and nothing to say. I only can send you a warm hug and all remains of my love to support you.

 
 
 

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Panda commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Really missing my mom right now :/ she was the only one in my fd up family. And what hurts even more was I only really knew her for two weeks before she died cuz I got taken from her when I wasnt even two years old and when I turned 18 and had the…"
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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KIM Montgomery commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Today is an especially rough day, can't really nail it down to one thing.  So many things going through my head.  I have had 2 weeks to my self to process everything that has happened in since my husband's diagnosis and passing.…"
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Linda Engberg commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Morgan, You said it perfect, there is nothing worth living for without my Husband to share it with."
5 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been one year and seven months it has not changed, but it does get "softer", you'll know what I mean. Every night I tell her I love her and I would love to hear her voice one more time.  "
7 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"And same here. I have bad days and tolerable days. I am having a real hard time without my Mom right now. Life just does not make sense anymore. But I keep going on through the motions of  living, hoping this deep sense of loss will ease…"
15 hours ago
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Nancy, yes it sounds like there were a lot of similarities in our situations.  I married late and so we would have celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary on August 16th of this year.  Jack's birthday was 12/29/2017. Cancer took my…"
15 hours ago
Doug replied to Cathy 's discussion My brother's death cirrhosis
"Hello Nancy, I don't know how both you, and Cathy, can carry on as well as you have after losing someone you loved so much? It's unbelievable to me that your husband's doctor could be so inept as to never test his liver function,…"
17 hours ago
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18 hours ago
Esther commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Today has been waves of numb detachment for me... I try to be positive and hopeful but sometimes we can't force it and must just tolerate the sadness"
18 hours ago
JO B commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"sorry for evry 1 it goin thru hell i am  i feal k im livin in hell coz of all bad shit wev had coz of loss"
21 hours ago
Michael Thompson commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Morgan, how beautifully written...And spot on!"
21 hours ago
Joy commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Same here. As you said some days are tolerable while others are still bad. I try to keep myself distracted, but memories of my mom invade my thoughts throughout the day."
21 hours ago
morgan commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"I have been struggling along trying to improve upon what I was left to deal with without my husbands unfailing support for four and half years.  I still want to die.  Everyday.  And of course he would want for me to not have to suffer…"
21 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Just wanted to see how everyone is doing, I have bad days and tolerable days. Its still very difficult, I miss her so much."
21 hours ago
Nancy replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Grief in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Kim.  We have a lot of similarities.  Lost my husband to an aggressive cancer May 10th.  We had his celebration of life May 19th and it was truly a celebration with music, stories, food, a bonfire.  Just what he would've…"
23 hours ago
Nancy commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"I don't think you are being an A hole.  I just think maybe you've had more time to clearly think and grieve.  I hope to get to the point where I can live my life without despair every waking moment as well.  I appreciate…"
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Michael C. Ramsey commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Not trying to be an A-hole here folks but, C'mon waiting/wanting to die? My Andrea is gone almost 3 years and she is always on my mind. I have good days and bad days BUT I try to live whatever days I have left the way she would want me to. She…"
yesterday

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