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Jo l posted a status
"Everyday is a struggle now"
Feb 18
Jo l posted a status
"Time doesn't heal this pain it makes it less intense in time but the hurt and saddness never will go away completely"
Feb 5
Lori commented on Jo l's blog post Missing my bf
"I'm sorry for your loss Jo. I lost my fiance on 1-19-18 and like your story, he had a rough life (was 42), but was getting everything back on track.  We had been together 2 years but known each other for 4. We got engaged last february but…"
Feb 5
Jo l posted a blog post

Loss

I wonder about all the losses I've had in my life I'm 35 and I've lost most of my family everyone that I was close to are gone now the hardest has been losing my bf he was my best friend I wish I could understand why and how I'm suppose to go on what's the purpose of losing everyone I loved and what is my purpose now in lifeSee More
Jan 29
Jo l posted a status
"Trying to go on in this life"
Jan 27
Jo l commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Multiple Losses Group
"Hi all I've lost most of my family in the past 10 years or so and my bf 4 months ago its been very hard to deal with I ask why this has happened and don't have any answers it just doesn't seem fair "
Jan 22
Jo l joined Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group
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Multiple Losses Group

I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
Jan 17
Jo l posted a blog post

Missing my bf

depression is horrible I can't seem to get out of it I miss my bf. He didn't have a easy life he was 52 when he passed and he was getting his life together and things were going ok for him and us and now he's gone and all his dreams and what he wanted to do and us to do is gone it seems so unfair to him and us I just don't understand why this had to happen See More
Jan 16
Jo l posted a blog post

Missing my bf

its been 4 months since I lost my bf I have lost other people in my life but this has hurt me so much we knew each other for 4 years. He was my best friend and him passing away so suddenly has broken my heart. Especially since we knew each other for a short time I will always be grateful that I knew him and we had the time that we had together wish things were different and he wasn't gone and I didn't have to feel this pain every day See More
Jan 10
Nancy replied to Jo l's discussion Lost bf in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Sorry for your loss. "
Jan 3
britt bohannan replied to Jo l's discussion Lost bf in the group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm with you Jo, I lost my love just under six months ago, he was my everything. We had just planned our entire future together when he was killed instantly in an accident. I am so lost without him, I miss him so very much, he is constantly on…"
Jan 2
Jo l added a discussion to the group Lost My Spouse...
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Lost bf

hi all I lost my bf a few months ago he passed away suddenly it's been very hard these past months without him. He was everything to me we spent pretty much all our time together he was older then me but I thought he would be around for years still it was a shock when he passed away I try to take it a day at a time but it's been difficult I miss him everyday there's a hole in my heart now I'm sorry for all of your losses as well and for anyone that has to go through this kind of painSee More
Jan 2
Jo l joined Jon-Paul Ackerman's group
Jan 2
Jo l is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jan 1

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Loss

I wonder about all the losses I've had in my life I'm 35 and I've lost most of my family everyone that I was close to are gone now the hardest has been losing my bf he was my best friend I wish I could understand why and how I'm suppose to go on what's the purpose of losing everyone I loved and what is my purpose now in life

Posted on January 29, 2018 at 4:39pm

Missing my bf

depression is horrible I can't seem to get out of it I miss my bf. He didn't have a easy life he was 52 when he passed and he was getting his life together and things were going ok for him and us and now he's gone and all his dreams and what he wanted to do and us to do is gone it seems so unfair to him and us I just don't understand why this had to happen 

Posted on January 16, 2018 at 4:30pm — 1 Comment

Missing my bf

its been 4 months since I lost my bf I have lost other people in my life but this has hurt me so much we knew each other for 4 years. He was my best friend and him passing away so suddenly has broken my heart. Especially since we knew each other for a short time I will always be grateful that I knew him and we had the time that we had together wish things were different and he wasn't gone and I didn't have to feel this pain every day 

Posted on January 10, 2018 at 7:04pm

 
 
 

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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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"AMEN!!!!!!"
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"Bluebird, You have a very valid point, I agree with your comment."
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