I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties. My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief. I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
"A month ago on the 10th while I was 6777 miles away from Los Angeles, I got a Facebook message from my boyfriend's best friend saying my boyfriend had passed away. My whole world was shattered into pieces, not only because I was scheduled to…"
33 years is a long history. I had another person who lost her husband tell me once that losing our history is so much a part of what we lost. We wrote that history with one person. And now we are somehow supposed…"
The only tiny glimmer of hope I can possibly hope to give you is that as time passes the hellish feelings will become a little less intense and a little less frequent. I cannot unfortunately tell you they go away.
I saw your post the other day and I just want to say how sorry I am for the loss of your husband. I lived close to Pittsburgh for part of my life (childhood) and felt a tug of kindred spirit.
Your 25 year old son has the right…"
"Majorie, You pretty much wrote my story, just different names and dates and i am so, so sorry you have had to find your way here to this site although it will be one of the most caring places you will find to help you find a way to cope with…"
can u hear me yell
can u sea mess im in
can u sea wot u hav dun 2 me not just me but evry 1 on hear wear is luv of god yea thrs 2 mush of us but we ned luv we did not loss
its ot s;f pity
its not whywhy why"
"New to this site. Husband died on February 4th after being diagnosed with cancer on December 15.It was so quick I'm feeling like it's a bad dream. We were together for 42 years and he just turned 60."
"My husband was just diagnosed with cancer December 15 and died Febe 4th. I have been with him for 42 years and he just turned 60.
It's like a bad dream that I can't wake up from.
He was buried this past Tuesday and I feel depressed and…"