"Zell, I wanted you to know what you wrote on the My Shawn thread to Kim about grief was so very true...you truly are gifted with words and seem to exactly how to phrase some concepts in grieving that are so illusive..I am going through my second…"
"Yes celebrate her birthday. On my son's birthday we had a drum circle outside with his closest friends and family. We left a chair and drum for him. I know he was there with us. It was something he loved and something everyone else…"
"Kim, having said all I've said - it IS pure hell isn't it? this pain is indescribable, its relentless grip on the heart almost impossible to believe. Who ever knew such intense pain existed and that one can carry on living in the…"
"Thank you Kim. I do appreciate it. Yes, the pain is exactly how you describe it. But it is important to know that you should not try to suppress it. I must be felt an experienced. Grief, as you know, comes on like very…"
you so seem to understand me. I am so sorry for your loss as I completely comprehend your deep pain. My Desiree's birthday will be Oct 1st. I without question will celebrate the birth of my only child, as to how this will be received by…"
"zell. thank you from the heart, yes everything you said is true. I know you are here for me and I hope you know the same from me. everyday I go see shawn , no one is out there I like it that way, I cry so hard and talk to him…"
"Love what you say Dennis:
"I do completely believe that the future holds:1) The end of all suffering2) The end of all pain3) An abundance of peace4) The reunions with those that we have lost in death.Those things give me great comfort at times…"
"Hi Jo - yea, that can look rather funny hey :-) but this is what it actually means:
For we are strangers and sojourners (aliens) are used in conjunction with each other to imply that we are temporary residents on God’s earth…"
"It's ok Kim.
I can relate to you not wanting to "go public". You need to feel absolutely comfortable about who you speak to. Best maybe for you would be someone who has gone through a similar loss, or if not the same loss,…"
"Would like to say hello to all on this thread.It is almost five months since my hubby went to live in Heaven with Jesus. Has been a lifetime since then but with the help of Jesus, I am now slowly returning back to normal. Tears can only help for…"
It's been 6 months since the loss of my daughter as well. I am still at the point that one day at a time is not comforting to me. All I feel is the pain... The Agonizing loss. My daughters birthday however was in June. There was no…"
"thank you zell. yes everyday hurts so dam bad. I do feel very alone, I know no one that has gone through this pain here where I live. as for going to a support group, right now I just cant do it. I don't want to talk to someone that has not…"