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Does anyone else write to grieve?
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My Brain...by Cindy I see your smile and your beautiful eyesin my wakeing hours and dreamsI hear your voice and your strong advicebut it's muddled by some kind of fogI think for brief seconds, that I…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Jo Pennington Jun 1, 2012.
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Kim replied to Cindy's discussion Does anyone else write to grieve?"My brother passed away 10 years ago when he was 4; I was 7. I write about him all the time.... My college essay was about his sickness, death, and how it affected me years later. I'm 18 now and it has gotten easier to…"
Babs replied to Cindy's discussion Does anyone else write to grieve?"Hi cindy, thanks i am still writing, Things are a little more stable for me now but is still a real struggle to grieve. The other day i was feeling so sad that i was never able to say my wedding vows to the man i loved that i wrote this poem, my…"
Cindy replied to Cindy's discussion Does anyone else write to grieve?"Hi Babs. I realize that it's been awhile since you posted. My life has been a little hectic. I hope you are still writing. Is life getting any easier for you?"
Babs replied to Cindy's discussion Does anyone else write to grieve?"Yes I do, its been one of the only things I have found to help a little. I have written quite a lot of poetry, Have posted some on here. Your words are all to familiar, but I find it good to read the words of other people on this road, it feels a…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"I'm sorry Carol, all that just adds to the pain we already feel! I hope all the other stuff gets better. It doesn't help us heal any, when everything else just pours salt in our wounds. I hope things start to look up for…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Hi Carol, Well, it is getting close to a year without my love, Les. I had a hard time on his birthday a few days ago. Today wasn't very good either. I am lucky to have a new friend, Misty. She and I do sewing and…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"No problem, but if misery loves company? My car is leaking gas and antifreeze and needs a new muffler, I lost my debit card, I tried to ride my bike to work and was embarrased to have to call someone to pick me up. It seems like we deserve a break!…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Hi Ladies. How are you?
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Cindy replied to Deborah Dodds's discussion Almost one year since I lost my husband, I need help Please?"I understand. My love died on Sept 12, 2010. It's been almost 9 months. I miss him so much. We spent alot of time together-on a daily basis-and my world feels empty and lopsided without him. I moved out of his home after…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Hi Ladies,
Some days are okay, but latley I feel very much alone. I don't like the way I feel, like it's all just too much. I have to keep going, but I feel so hurt. I am the walking wounded. I just wish I could talk to…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Thanks Carol. Yeah, some times I smile, some times I cry."
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Hi Ladies. I hope you are all doing well. I am doing okay off and on. Recently moved from Les' home to a small place closer to work. Financially, I am not doing well. I had surgery on the 18th after moving on the…"
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Things are a little better. I hope they are getting better for you too Carol. I keep plugging along. "
Cindy replied to Carol Cugliani's discussion After 21 years I just lost my best friend and soulmate"Hi. It's been a rough day. All sorts of emotional and physical things going on. It's been six months since Les passed, and I still have times, almost every day, that I fall apart and cry till I cannot breath. I…"
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- I am 44 years old and mother to a 17 year old son.
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- I am 44 years old and recently lost my finace. He was only 54, it was sudden and devistating. I am so lost right now.
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- At 4:17pm on November 26, 2010,
renee krutsinger said… - hi cindy and carol. i had a terrible melt down at work this morning. i don't know why, but i lost it, but lucky i have a really good friend there, who, just let me cry and held me. toni is was one of my best friends and she's awesome. i'm doing to better this afternoon. just emotionaly drained. i don't think i'm evening to move from this chair. i hope u both have a had a good day and will have a good evening. we will see what happens. hugs and love sent to u both.
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jb (jo) replied to Essie Jay's discussion Everything is Changing in the group I love my Dad."im so sory abot yore loss essie wen my dad died my harf sister wont me to throw evry thng out i did not wont to u cud say im a realy bad horder i dont lik throwng thngs out
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