There are no words to offer you as you mark the fifth anniversary of your beloved husband's passing. I can only say that I feel deeply for you, and my heart aches at your pain. I know the feeling you are describing only too well.…"
"Its been 3 months since I lost my love. I had to do it alone. I hope you have family or someone you can just vent and they just listen.I still feel pain and ups and downs.One second I think I am better and boom.Have no clue what sets it off. Do what…"
"You aren't doing it to yourself -- your grief and your loss are doing it to you. It sucks, but that's what grief and loss do. It's quite common to feel that things are getting better for a while, and then find yourself…"
"I'm so sorry, Bluebird. The mornings are a nightmare, I agree, but the late evenings, that prospect of slipping into unconsciousness (if only it could be permanent)can be such a relief. Your steadfast, committed love for your husband shines out…"
"Crystal, you know that you are not being the least bit irrational. My mom died on Christmas Eve. We all knew that it would be mom's last Christmas. She called him and asked him when he was coming. He said, "I'm not. My roommate is…"
"I have to say, Nancy, I envy you the 43 years. My husband and I were together for nearly 13 years, but married for only one week when he died (massive, unexpected heart attack). But no matter how long a couple is together, when they are truly…"
"No, of course it is not wrong to grieve. My husband died 5 years ago today, and I will never stop grieving. The course of grief and the response(s) to it are different for each person, and no one should ever tell another that…"
"Do you have family and/or friends you can turn to for help? Do you intend to continue with your pregnancy, and, if so, do you plan to keep and raise the baby? I think the emotional support of loved ones would be very helpful to you right now,…"
"I don't think you should feel bad. When someone is ill for a long time, it's natural to start grieving quite a long time before that person actually dies. Besides, you felt that way in part because you didn't want your mum…"
"Today marks exactly five years since my husband died.
I still wish I had died when he did. For me, it's not the nights that are the worst part, it's the mornings. Of course I do miss him at night -- I miss cuddling with him, I…"
"Had better days than today. My sister decides to move to my mom's native home for six months with her kids to renovate the house and in my head I'm yelling at her 'what's the use now. she's dead.'
"Sadly I seldom come to this page... I am so sorry about that ---
-I just hit a wall at some point where I realized I had nothing helpful to share & did not want to add to anyones pain.
-Brad's 10 year anniversary is drawing…"
"All these years later ... And when I do leave my house (as I have become so recluse)
I still hear insensitive comments just last week - I was told that not only was this gods plan I agreed to it before I was ever born.
"It's amazing the power of food shared together has. I have broken down in the grocery store many times, almost every time I went during the first year. Some things I can't go near and others give me great comfort. I…"