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lost my very close uncle due to a brutal media public homicide and feel so alone and have a hard time being a mom
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I'm a single mom who was very close to my uncle who happen to be gay, he took me under his wing at a young age and was always there for me ( paid for my college, moral support) He was murdered a litt…

Started this discussion. Last reply by jolie Nov. 14, 2009.

 

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when my husband died last year I all the sudden stared getting weird rashes which then turned into boils. doctor told me that it is very common to happen. this lasted for about 5 months with me and then one day I noticed it was gone
December 2, 2009
He was still apart of your life and that sounds very traumatic and I would think someone really never "gets over" something like that. I lost my uncle suddenly less then a month ago and people have basically told me I should "be over it" and go out…
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Its really awful time for you and I m so sorry for heard about your loss. I understand your feelings and its difficult to deal with this grief. I also lost my uncle 3years ago and it was so bad experience for me. I loved him so much and never forget…
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hello All, I'm new to this group and would prefer to keep my name private due to the media attention in my uncle's death and that it has not yet gone to trial. I'm trying to find a support network and want to know if anyone else has broken out in a…
November 12, 2009
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I'm a single mom also, it is not as easy as people say to just focus on your child when you are in nightmare. if you pray then pray....if not find a means to vent, I know its not so easy to find childcare when needed and the people you think will be…
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I'm a single mom who was very close to my uncle who happen to be gay, he took me under his wing at a young age and was always there for me ( paid for my college, moral support) He was murdered a little over 2 weeks ago by a man I met when I was visi…
November 11, 2009
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Single mom trying to cope with the biggest heartache I have ever had and feel like I have noone
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Single mother who recently lost her very dear uncle who was my mentor due to a murder by a man who also had a crush on me. My father had a stroke 2 days later and i'm worried he may commit suicide.
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