"Lots of virtual hugs!
Maybe see about finding a different therapy group to see if it is a better fit. The crying and everything else is normal. I have support of my family and I still feel so alone. I actually got out one of my Mom's stuffed…"
12 Steps in Grief Process1.RECOVER FROM A LOVED ONE'S DEATH REQUIRES MORE THAN TIME.Yet, if we allow ourselves the time to mourn we can gradually break grief's grip on us. Recognizing the role and value of the grieving process orients us to accepting the fact of the death. Acceptance marks a major step towards recovery.2.GRIEF IS UNIVERSAL - GRIEVERS ARE DISTINCTIVE.Grieving follows a pattern, but each griever experiences it differently. Awareness of the basic pattern reveals common ground for…See More
"I am so sorry for your loss. My Mom just died as well. I just wanted to say, you were there for your Mom. You were there all the while. You could not control the very moment she passed, but you were there, and you comforted her and told…"
I've been feeling worse. It's been over two weeks. Yesterday all I did was cry. I do not have anyone of my own. My brother is the only one left and he always winds up making me feel bad. No one in his family, his wife, my niece or his Mother In Law has reached out to me since the funeral. I feel abandoned. I did not expect them to be my new family but I thought they would care. Offer to help in some way. Have me over...they live down the street. It hurts. I feel like they are mad at me. Like I…See More
"I ask this question every day, since I am the only surviving member of my family (parents, and siblings)
5 miscarriages and then the love of my life was taken. I keep asking what i ever did in my lifetime to suffer so much. This…"
"Dear Kim, I am so so sorry. Your courage in carrying on living under the weight of such suffering is awe-inspiring. I'm sure you don't see it like that, but it is what shines out of your words to me. You are doing all you can, I know that.…"
its so hard everyday to get up, I feel like the walking dead. I cant think any more, I don't dream, I just cry. my dr says the drepression is getting worse, I don't care, I just want to go with my son, this hell I live in is killing me, I just want to go. to be happy with my shawn, everyone says you got the memories, well im saying I don't want them, I want my baby, I want to see his smile, his laugh, to hug him, kiss him, to hear his voice. I pray to die, to be this broken in side, this…See More
""Another question that never gets answered is WTF am I suppose to do now?" I know Tildyc. I wish I had the answer. Gary wasn't supposed to go, not now. He wasn't ready to; I wasn't ready for him to either. That's a…"