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Dating after widowed
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Has anyone dated after they lost their spouse? How long did it take. How was it?Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by adriana gonzalez Sep 11, 2013.

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I lost my spouse 16 months ago. Have gotten into a new relationship but he lets me grieve openly. I have a2 year old daughter. Also I am 26See More
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kathleen akin commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"For me...I can tell you right now it would depend on what spouse passed away. I'm sure this sounds bad, but if it had been my first spouse it would have been a short grieving period. I will leave it to the imagination as to why that would…"
Jan 11, 2017
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Lynn commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"I lost my husband 4yrs ago and there is not a day that goes by that he is not on my mind or in my heart. I started dating an old flame of mine and things seemed to be going great! we have known each other forever so we were already friends. We have…"
Jun 2, 2015
Cathie Mac commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"I started dating, and although its weird, its not too difficult. Dating doesn't mean you have to forget your spouse.  A guy I have dated for a little while told me he isn't looking to replace my husband, but would like a place along…"
Mar 9, 2015
Lost & Alone commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"My heart lightens for all of you I guess it is as they say time heals all and marches on... I just hope one day my heart will move on, sounds like you are all in a better place than me... God Bless You Good luck to you ... I hope you find the…"
Mar 9, 2015
Karen T. commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"Sashelle- Thank you. Yeah I know that I will never get over my husband and he will always have his own special place in my heart. But everyone talks about how they understand how I will eventually start dating again and that's no big deal (my…"
Mar 1, 2015
Sashelle commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"I don't know if there is a right time per se! I lost my husband in 03 and I can get choked up looking at pictures or feeling sorry for myself when my girlfriends are vacationing with their spouses or what not. I only say that to reaffirm that I…"
Feb 28, 2015
Karen T. commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"I know everyone says that you will know when the right time comes to start dating again, but I just feel conflicted. My heart is definately with my husband as I know it always will be, I cry sometimes very heavily just speaking or thinking about…"
Feb 28, 2015
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Lost & Alone commented on Amy Reed's group Losing a spouse and dating again
"I was wondering how things are going as well, I do not know if I am going to be ready to date yet... I still have a lot of questions for the universe and I do not know if I am strong enough to move on yet.. I was just wondering if you could tell me…"
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I am 26 widowed with a 2 year old.
About my Loss:
I Was with my Husband Since I was 15. Married to him In 08. Been together for 10 years when he passed. He passed due to a train accident at the age of 25.

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At 4:17pm on December 10, 2013, Tye said…
I sent you a friend request but I was just trying to comment....but I lost my fiance last year in november....I am 26 years old and we had two children a boy and a girl our son is 7 years and my daughter is 3 years old....he died suddenly and tragically....he was murdered actually...he was onlu 25 years old....we been together since we were 15 years also....and living together since 17 years old....so I fully understand ur pain...n I can relate....its jus so hard....but give me a chat if u ever wanna talk....it feels good to talk with someone who may understand my pain...thanks n take care.
At 8:25am on August 7, 2013, Amy Reed said…
You didn't hurt me at all. :) you have a special gift and I would love to hear more. Anything else you might have. I have no answers to anything.
At 12:55am on August 7, 2013, Amber Dunnett said…

Amy, I'm sorry if I surprised you in anyway shape or form. I didn't mean to hurt you with message. Your  husband even asked me tell you but, slowly and nicely so I wouldn't scare you. But, if u have anymore questions please ask me but, keep in mind I may not have all the answers you want either. Enjoy your daughter. Sincerely, Amber

 
 
 

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I have been very stressed and upset my daughter came back to my house for a while until she and her family gets on their feet which is not the problem the problem is she has made me get all the things that are important to me out of the house and put in the garage pictures mementos etc. because she thinks that I need to move on she said because it has been three years and she does not understand how she is upsetting me I don't want to be in this house like this anymore how do I make her…See More
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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