"It's tough when you lose several immediate family members at once...sometimes you wonder if it's some sort of endurance test. This happened to my cousin many years back. It took time and support from other family members for…"
I have been befuddled over the passing of the 10 year old boy that was hit by a car last week. My grandchildren were in my care all last week so there wasn't much time for deep thought. Npw that I am alone now I'm having lots of thoughts about it, so I went to the farm for a little distraction, plus the grass out there really needed cutting. I brought my dog Zero with me. Zero's getting old and I want him to have a good summer. Anyway Zero and I took a trip to the farm. I buzzed around cutting…See More
"Mark, I apologize in advance if I'm out of line but I worry about you. I am hurting too from the very recent death of my mom and probably couldn't lend a ton of advise, but having people to talk to is important. You sound…"
"im so sory abot yore loss essie wen my dad died my harf sister wont me to throw evry thng out i did not wont to u cud say im a realy bad horder i dont lik throwng thngs out
im, 1 of thes i keap out of datee bill resepts i do iv kept his diarys…"
"My mother survived breast cancer twice in her 50's, colon cancer at the age of 70 and was diagnosed last June with pancreatic cancer. Since her prognosis wasn't good, she and my father moved to my home so I could care for her. She lived…"
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
I say we are family as we are connected in our loss. We have a lot in common, we love greatly and when there is great love, there is great loss.
We are not alone, God is with us every moment. And, I know our beloved mothers are…"
In two days my sister will have been gone from this world for 180 days. 6 months. Each hour we get closer to the 20th my anxiety builds. I can't breathe, I can't think straight, I have no appetite, my heart is pounding, my hands are shaking and I just want to disappear. People around me can feel the anxiety radiating off me. I know that Thursday will be just another day for so many people in the world but I desperately don't want Thursday to come. I know it will accomplish nothing and change…See More
"Yes Adrianne we have all ended up in the same place but with different lengths of time. We must believe the messages we read that say we will get better. We will get to a place where our bodies can "handle" the grief. We must look…"
"Reading all of your posts I find that though the words vary and situations are different than my own, we are all going through the same pain. I feel as if I'm not living in the moment at all anymore. Around the corner comes a memory, a quick…"
"It's been a year and a half and I still can't believe my mom is gone. My entire immediate family is all gone. I feel like I'm serving some prison sentence where I have to battle the feeling of emptiness until my own last…"
I understand that it's very easy to get overwhelmed by others' grief at times. It seems sometimes like people want to lean on you/us when they are grieving or they count on you to help them through your grief. My mother was very…"