When our loved one passes away, life changes.  We ask ourselves . . . Who am I now?  Our self esteem may take a hit.  We may have to take on new roles or tasks that were handled by our loved ones, such as cooking or child care.  Our beliefs may change.  We now see the world as unfair and we ask why did this happen? Have you taken on the tasks or roles of your loved ones?  Do you wonder who you ar…