Robert Tinsley

Male

Texarkana, TX

United States

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About Me:
i cant tell you about me right now because im changeing so rapidly up down up down iam going to be father again on or around the 15th of june im really nervous and excited but i think i am feeling guilty about looking forward to the new baby anyone with any thoughts would be greatly appr.
About my Loss:
I lost my life two years ago see i was on the road moving trailer houses for fema to the tornado vics in kansas and had preveousley been in mississippi for the katrina vics i was supposed to have picked my kids up that weekend from there grandmothers house but got tangeled up do to my father-in-law trying to reuse a permit i could not make it to pick them up that night there was a fire that took my babies from me i never knew the pain one person could feel i had a rough life as a kid and never really got to enjoy my childhood but after my children came i found great joy in leting them have the childhood i felt like every kid should have we fished walked talked played cuddled everyday we could and when the state police came to tell me at the truckstop i was at i drove straight to the hospital praying that they werent hurt to badly when ibeen arrived they told me that my daughter and oldest son had died of smoke inhalation and my baby boy was flown to childrens in little rock i turned and drove straight there my 6 year old babyboy had been burned on 96% of his body in 4th degree burns and that there was nothing they could do i had a choice to make and i didnot want to because it ment my son was going to die i had them pull the plug on the lifesupport and i stayed with him until he was passed it was the most awful day of my life then about nine months later i had a little angel named haylee she was born with osteogenisis type 2 and i almost lost my faith but god,jesus interveined and laid hands on me im still here and working on myself !!!!!!!!!
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  • Diana, Grief Recovery Coach

    When a child dies, parents are forever changed. I'm so sorry for your losses. Guilt is a normal reaction. Allow yourself to express your feelings. It may help to share pictures of your children and write about your feelings in the blog/journal feature. (((((hugs))))) and congrats on the impending birth.
  • Kar

    Thank you for your kind words, You have had so much pain, - my deepest sympathy's. Congrats on the new baby.
  • Ann Edmondson

    Robert, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your little ones. To be so young and to deal with this type of pain can at times feel unbareable. As mere mortals we cannot understand why God let's things like this happen. I will pray for you and your family with all my heart. Yet, I also rejoice on the birth of your new child.