I'm a fifty-six year old IT professional, father and husband living in Massachusetts. I also have a farm in Vermont with a two-acre vineyard. I've written several memoirs about the loss of my first wife.
About my Loss:
My wife died of breast cancer in 1997 after a seven-year struggle. My current wife's husband was murdered by her father in 1999. We are a blended family of tragedy. I've written extensively about my experiences in two memoirs: "In the Failing Light" and "After All: a memoir."
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yeah,ur right.i think a traumatic loss is way harder,especially on kids.a natural death is verry hard too,but i think with murder it leaves a person feeling verry unsafe.i can't imagine how frightening it would be for a child.i have had a real hard time pulling it together since the murders.i feel like i'm not all here,kind of drifting along like a ghost.hope ur havin a good day:)
Lisa S.
hi david,sorry about your losses.sounds like u guys are getting through it together.thats nice.welcome
Feb 15, 2012
Lisa S.
yeah,ur right.i think a traumatic loss is way harder,especially on kids.a natural death is verry hard too,but i think with murder it leaves a person feeling verry unsafe.i can't imagine how frightening it would be for a child.i have had a real hard time pulling it together since the murders.i feel like i'm not all here,kind of drifting along like a ghost.hope ur havin a good day:)
Feb 16, 2012