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The Holiday Season and my loss 1 Reply

This Christmas Season this year is very hard.Family gatherings are wonderful but l feel my husband not being so much more.Seeing everyone makes it more real that Ron is not here.The tears are in my…Continue

Started by Denise Lavoie. Last reply by Linda Engberg Dec 24, 2018.

Lost my wife 14 Replies

It's been almost a week since i lost my wife to lung disease. She's in my mind 24/7. I don't have anybody else to talk too. I was carred by emotional and physical abuse mostly in my childhood in…Continue

Started by Kyle McKay. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Nov 12, 2018.

Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 3 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Fran Oct 19, 2018.

FAILING 9 Replies

next month will be three years since I lost my husband and I'm failing miserably I am in serious debt I cant fix, I stay home because I have extreme difficulty leaving my house I don't know how to…Continue

Started by Pamela philipp. Last reply by Corinne C. Rico Oct 4, 2018.

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Comment by Linda Engberg on January 28, 2018 at 6:13am

Woflman,

Welcome to this site, sorry for your lose. This is one place you can come to and share your thoughts, I have been on it since I lost my Husband to cancer. 

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on January 28, 2018 at 5:52am

Dear Wolfman.  I am so sorry for your loss. I'm not much help because I lost the love of my life after 44 years 17 months ago and have lost the meaning of life. All I know is that the people on this site truly know what you are going through

Best Wishes 

Marjorie

Comment by W0lfman on January 28, 2018 at 1:28am

Hello all i am new to this group and haven't been able to find the words until now after 2 failed marriages I had sworn off marriage.  Then i met the most persistent loving caring woman i had ever met she honestly made me a better man. This was the woman i was supposed to grow old with.  Well 12/12/17 my loving wife of 3 short beautiful years passed due to severe asthma turning to lung disease. Now i feel completely lost  i dont know who i am any more without her i cant eat i rarely sleep and its just all i can do to get the hell out of bed. Anyway thanks for letting me share i cant seem to talk with people who "just dont get it " they say they do and are so sorry and im sure they are but i seem to get mad at even hearing it. MY emotions are all over the place and this is very new to me just not sure how to get back in control of myself. ill stop for now but if anyone wants to talk man i could use a friend

Comment by Linda Engberg on January 23, 2018 at 6:57am

One quote that helps me is "It is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on January 23, 2018 at 3:52am

It's the price we pay for love.

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on January 23, 2018 at 3:37am

Rose what terrible blows you've sustained. I really feel for you and you still took the time to respond to me. And Elynn too. We are all suffering.

Comment by Elynn m on January 22, 2018 at 7:15pm

Rose,  I'm sorry for your loss.    I was married for 41 years ....always hoped to reach our 50th, but never did.  Joe has been gone since september, 2015....seems like yesterday.    That's great that you have family around you.   We can only take one day at a time.   I'm just now learning to Remember all of the good times we had. 

Comment by Nancy on January 22, 2018 at 6:58pm

I am sure you are numb Rose. My gosh.  I believe I have not gotten past the shock to truly grieve.  My husbands diagnosis came out of the blue and then he was critically ill for most of it. We were fighting it with all we had until it was no use and called in Hospice.  He survived 7 months from diagnosis to passing. I travel for work and have for 30 years. I would call my husband each and every night.  Now in a hotel I feel that void and talking to one of the kids isn't the same.

Comment by Rose C Gianopoulos on January 22, 2018 at 6:51pm

I have had a very difficult year in 2017.  In June my beloved nephew committed suicide. One week later my lifelong girlfriend''s grandson had a tragic accident and died while hiking. My husband passed away in October and on Christmas Eve my son in law's cousin, who I consider dear to me, committed suicide.  Also lost my dear cat and dog during the same year. I have not had time to grieve one when another came along.  I am numb.

Comment by Rose C Gianopoulos on January 22, 2018 at 6:49pm

Bruce: Thank you for your advice.  You know after being with someone for so many years that the little things are the things that get to me. I still work even though I am 70 and Peter called me every day at work at 10:00 am to ask how my ride in was, or how am I feeling, or how did I sleep and most often what do you want for dinner Love?  This is the hardest time for me at work because I am there everyday at 10:00 am and the phone does not ring.  I am very lucky to work with people that understand that some days are harder than others and they do talk to me about what is going on and how I am handling things. 

 

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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I have nothing that I want to or have to, to keep me busy except doing what I'm doing which has to have something to do with Her.  Like yesterday, I found a small  3/4 X 2 1/2 inch bottle with a cork when I went to the dollar store…"
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"Trina, Check your inbox for a message from me. Joe,  So true.  That's exactly why I post here too.  I keep thinking if I get it off my chest and out into cyberspace at least I know I wont be suffering alone.  That consoles…"
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Trina Mamoon commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hello All, I am sorry that I have not posted here for a while now to show my support for you. On August 4th it was the fifth anniversary of Joseph's passing. I just don't have the strength or energy anymore to keep pushing to survive each…"
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Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I'm in the 19th month and don't know what to say, except that the only time I'm not living this horrible nightmare is when I sleep and don't dream at all.  Even when I post in a way to try to console anyone here, in a way,…"
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"Morgan, Once again I want to Thank You for sharing you thoughts with us. You put into words the things I don't know how to express."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I don't mean to be a downer, but I am not sure there is an end to our grief. I know mine is still going strong. I wish the good things in my life were as consistent as this is. We have to keep moving though. Keep taking baby steps. Assay…"
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"John T,   I saw your post late late last night.  I see you are still doing your best to cope. I remember a time that I wasn't even coping. I was barely standing.  After six years seven months I have become anesthetized.…"
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Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi All, Today I suddenly had grief all over the day. I miss my mother a lot and it seems that there is no end to this grief. Hope I meet her someday when I leave this world.  Just wanted to share my feelings here because people around me…"
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